JQ n Bye-Bye fever...

Whenever JQ had fever, we will put a Bye-Bye fever to help him to reduce temperature...But, JQ doesn't like it...if you still remember, JQ doesn't like ice-cream, so he doesn't like the cool bye-bye fever too :)

When we wanted to put on his forehead, he sure said Mai ah, unless we 'tipu' him, should say 'pujuk' la, that Shuang-Shuang wuh (Syiok), then only he will let us put unwillingly...

When he still very small, below 1 year old, he will cry if we put on it. But we still put la, coz he didn't want to let us put on wet towel, so had to put bye-bye fever la.

The photo taken in Pyramid. We went to shopping, then suddenly JQ like have light fever, so we buy and put on it....u see? His face so not happy... ;p

Hope no need to help JQ put on this anymore....and really say Bye Bye to Bye-Bye fever....huh....

When we were in USA....

Of course, JQ did not follow us to New York...Kelvin and i went to New York last year, as i went there for a conference and Kelvin just accompanied me, as he can save hotel cost for this trip...that time, JQ only 1.5years old...

Of course, i super missed my JQ when i in New York. I started to miss him when i took Limosine to airport...Everyday, i told Kelvin that i missed JQ...of course Kelvin also missed our lovely son...

Sometimes, when i missed JQ, i in sad and bad mood, i don't feel like want to talk to Kelvin...Kelvin dare not disturb me then...

Luckily, i got borrowed my sister mini laptop. So we MSN webcam with JQ on the third day. I so excited to see JQ on-line! JQ so surprised when he saw us thru computer. But we cannot hear his voice, coz the speaker got problem. But i know he saying Papa and Mama... :) When we back, my in-law said JQ happy when saw us thru computer, but when we offline, he become no mood...pity boy! Mummy also pity...

I cannot remember who bring us home, Limosine or my in-law, i just know that i told Kelvin that cannot fight with me to hug JQ! ;p Then, once i saw JQ, i terus hug JQ tight-tight and kissed him non-stop, same as him, gave me a big hug, and kept calling me Mama and touch my face, like afraid this is not real. Then i let Kelvin hug him, JQ didn't want, of course, end up got la.

And, JQ becomes Kolar Bear since then....where ever i go, he will follow, else he will cry. I went to toilet also he will cry, i know he scared i will away from him again. Pity Boy....can you imagine how sad he was when i am not around?? Now i think back, i also feel like want to cry...

The most sad case was...after i back from US for less than 1 week, my in-law suddenly brought JQ to Johor when i was working! That time i still not 'finished' missing my JQ, but they suddenly 'take' JQ away from me! Honestly, i really angry and sad that time! I am JQ mother, don't you think you should get my permission first? Ya, Kelvin got called me and said his mother want to bring JQ to Johor, so i asked Kelvin no need coz my mum can take care JQ. But end up, they bring without telling me officially...so sad and angry!!

That day, after i went back home, i don't want to talk to Kelvin. I know this was not Kelvin problem, but i can't stop myself to blame him! I told Kelvin that i know this is not his problem, but my mood really no good, i asked him no need to bother me, let me release myself. My tear came out non-stop that night, i cried till i fall asleep. My tear almost come out when i wrote this....

The next day, i dropped an email to Kelvin, told him how i feel, else i know i will burst...my tear also non-stop when i typed email to Kelvin...after that i become much better.

Then, almost every night, we got MSN or 3G JQ to chat with him. He so excited when he saw us. My in-law told us that after MSN, JQ became moody, lao-gai, and no stamina...so, after few days, we did not MSN or 3G JQ so frequent...Pity JQ and Pity Mama....

Then, till another weekend (JQ went there about 10days), then we went to Johor to bring back JQ. My heart like wanted to fly to Johor...When we reached there, almost 3am,coz traffic jam. Then, the first thing i did is rush to the room and kissed my JQ! JQ like know is me, he opened his eyes then looked at me like can't believe. Then he closed his eyes. He must be thinking that he was dreaming..haha...The next morning, when he woke up, he saw me slept next to him, he so happy and called me Mama! Oh, so sweet....

Since that day, JQ became super kolar bear...i must made sure myself around, when his eyes opened, else he will cry for Mama. Then, most difficult part was when i went to work....first few days, he really cried loudly, but slowly, become better...

Since then, we love each other more....and, Kelvin knows i will miss JQ, so wherever we go, we will bring JQ along....but, we are not bringing JQ to Redang and Taiwan trip, coz not suitable for JQ....anyway, i think i will be ok, although i will still miss my JQ...

JQ, Mama Love U!!

Bear Bear Jelly Cake....

Deng-Deng-Deng-Deng-Deng!! The above is the Jellycake that i made for JQ for his birthday party. Nah, not only his Ling Tze Kai-Ma know how to make cake, i also know!!! Wahahahhaha....like got the 'vinegar' smell hor?? Kkakakakakakaka....of course la, i am not talent like Ling Tze Kai-Ma la, the cake she made is "AMAZING"!!! My jellycake looks 'terrible' at the eyes coz some technical problem. Initially, the bear got tear (coz color came out from the eyes), luckily, i manage to save it, but then caused it become like got dark circle....like Panda Bear... ;p whahahhahha....

Ok, ok, this blog is not to advertise cake.... ;p

When i made the jellycake, JQ was so kacau....oh, i purposely took one day leave to made the jellycake, coz on JQ birthday, i got class to attend. Then i went to my mum house to made it, as got more ga-chang (apparatus). And, i brought JQ along, so that my in-law can rest. Mana tau, my mum suddenly not free, coz her friend needed her help, so i will have to take care JQ and made Jellycake...

In order not to let JQ kacau me, i only started when he slept. Mana tau, he slept only 1hour+...i saja baru siap preparation and started a bit, he sudah bangun!! Oh, luckily Kelvin came during lunch hour, coz i forgot to bring some ingredient, so Kelvin got help to take care JQ a while, before he went to work...

So, we let him watched Lion Dance VCD (he love to watch Lion Dance, that day we repeated the VCD for 3times, can fight with Bee Movie....). But he watched a while, then he came kacau me, said Mama, Bao Ba ah. Kan Bear-Bear Xiong ah! (Mama carry me, see Bear-Bear).

Then, i have to carry him, else he will not leave....then, i will bring him back to living hall. This 'process' repeated few times....till finished ;p

Then, what was his expression when he saw bear-bear xiong?? i think you know the answer... :) yes, he said : Wah, Bear-Bear Xiong oh! Mei-Mei oh (wah, bear-bear, pretty oh).

When the jellycake was done, and remove from the container, JQ was so happy, and even clapped his hand and laugh!! SO cute!!

Then, i put the jellycake in the fridge, he kept on asking me to open the fridge to let him watch the bear-bear-xiong. He will bring me to the fridge, then said, Mama Kai ah, Yao Kan ah (Mama open, want to see ah)....whahhahhaha....

Then, during his birthday party, he so happy to see his bear-bear xiong! Oh, one thing, he like to blow candles too. Then, we cut the jellycake to eat, he said Boh?? (no more) Luckily, he not crying la ;p

Then, my brother came (late). He brought my brother to see his Bear-Bear jellycake...so cute!!

Next year, what cake to make ler?? ;p

Zhe-Li/Na-Li and Wo/Ni

Zhe Li = here
Na Li = there
Wo = I
Ni = You

JQ cannot differentiate the above yet, i think quite normal for kids la...;)

As i said, JQ normally call himself JQ, seldom used I. But lately, i teach him say I. But he always confuse the Wo and Ni. For example, when he want to eat apple, he will say : Ni Yao (you want). Then i will correct him, then only he will say Wo Yao.

Then for Zhe Li and Na Li...when he play ball, he will instruct us where to stand. Then, he will mix up this Zhe Li and Na Li. He will say Zhan Zhe Li (stand here), so we will go stand near him lor, but he will push us away to another place, so i have to correct him : Na Li...

Most funny was yesterday night. JQ suddenly woke up in he midnight, should be dreaming la, so, i gave him some water, and tap him so that he will sleep. Then, he kept on saying Mama, Zhe Li Zhe Li. I thaught he asked me to sleep on his bed, so i told him : No, Mama want to sleep Mama bed. But still he kept on said Mama Zhe Li Zhe Li, of course i still say No la.

Then, he pushed my hand away, and said Mama Zou Kai ah(Mama, go away)! So, i just go away, then JQ terus tidur.... Wahahhahhaa....then only i realised that he actually wanted to say Mama Na Li (means asked me to go back to my bed), but he said wrongly, but i did not think of that. Coz normally, he loves me to tap him to sleep.....

Whahahhahha....

JQ in Formula 1

Ok, have to write back old story of JQ :)

This should be the 2nd time JQ frighten me...First time was when he was about 4months plus, he had very high fever. This 2nd time, not because fever, but he knocked his head when 'driving' his 'Formula 1' (Baby Walker...) when he was 6months old

That time, i alone at home with JQ, as Kelvin went to be Hing-Dai of a friend. I forget what is the reason, i let JQ in his walker, then i went to Kitchen, should be to bil water.

Then, suddenly, JQ cried very loud, i quickly went out to check what happened! I saw his head 'bengkak', so i know his knocked his head, but i cannot figure out how his knock his head while he was in his walker?? Mystery till now...

That time i really being frightened! I so nervous, afraid anything happened to JQ, as he just 6months old, his head still fragile! My tear came outnon-stop! Then JQ kept crying! And he cry so loud! So, i called my mum, see what can i do. My voice really 'shaking'. Then my mum asked me to call my in-law. Now i cannot recall what i doing then! Just know that i tried to comfort JQ, so that he won't cry.

I tried everything, water, toy, singetc. Later, i gave him a book, then he slowly stop crying, and read his book. Luckily he loves book....can you see him smiling when he read the book?



Then, my in-law came, and we went to my in-law house. After JQ calm down, I did call Kelvin, but he didn't pick up, but later he called me back, as that time JQ no more crying, and my in-law was there, so i just told Kelvin that JQ knocked his head but no need to worry, anyhow, still he rushed back to see his lovely son...

The below photo is we helped JQ to apply some soothing oil. Pity Boy...

But you see? His leg opened so big! Don't know why, since he small, he like to open his leg big big. Even we help him to 'close' his leg, he will open big big again....very cute 1. I will post video next time :)

Jia Qing Li-Hai @ Jia-Qing Pan-Lai

Li-Hai in mandarin means very Superb (or in cantonese is Keng). And, Pan-Lai, is actually Hokkien (or Malay- Pandai) means Clever.

JQ very cute....i mentioned this in almost every post ;p

Ok, back to the topic....JQ will praise himself, when he doing something that he think himself is Li-Hai or Pan-Lai. We will say : JQ Li-Hai or JQ Pan-Lai....so cuteeeeee....

For example, if he managed to stack the soft block to very high, then he will clap his hands then run to me and say JQ Li-Hai.

If he sings a song, then he will also tell me happily that JQ Pan-Lai. A lot la, most of the time, if he does some thing for the very first time, and he success, he will say JQ Li-Hai or JQ Pan-Lai....most of the time, he will make us laugh loudly...and, normally, i will agree with him, and say Yes, JQ Li-Hai! :)

Why JQ will say so? Coz when he is still small (actually now also like that), when JQ doing some thing that i think i should praise him, i will say JQ Li-Hai or JQ Pan-Lai, so he learned from it :)

Few days ago, one funny example happened. That morning, i wanted to let JQ take bath after he woke up. So, i removed his long pants, then my handphone rang. So, i just left him in front the bath room, and i answered my call. Then, suddenly, JQ ran out and shouted loudly and like very gan-jeong, then he said JQ Li-Hai oh! I saw him so gan-jeong to run to me, i also a bit afraid of what happened to him...

We wonder why he said he Li-Hai, then i noticed that he removed the diaper that he wearing by himself! So, he so excited and told us he is Li-Hai! Wahahahhahahha....

My son, My JQ is always Li-Hai!!!

JQ and games....

At first, don't know what title to put...suddenly think of it, good good good... ;p

Actually i think this is a complicated topic ;p coz JQ has different character during games time, sometimes polite, sometime sharing, sometime selfish etc....i just give few example that i can remember la :)

Actually most of the time JQ is not selfish when playing. Maybe because this is his character, or maybe is because we told him that must share with others since small. Normally, when he playing some thing, and you ask him to let you play, he will give you, if you ask him softly. Anyhow, if it is new games, then sorry, he will not. He will play till he satisfy, then only you can borrow from him. However, if he doesn't know how to play, he will ask for yor help, and don't mind to play together with you.

And, i actually quite proud on JQ when he playing in playgroud, and there are others kid around :) why? If someone is playing some toy/game that JQ wishes to play, he will not go and grab it from others. He will wait till the person finish then only he will go and play. Good Boy! And, if he is playing, someone come and grab his thing, he will not cry. Then what will be his reaction?? Sometime he will say 'Oo' then look at me (very cute, he showing this to tell me someone taken his thing), so i will smile at him, say let the others play (i will tell him quietly that the he/she is naughty and JQ is good boy). Sometimes, he will be sad and look at the he/she, and sometimes will come to hug me. Anyhow, this seldom happended la, maybe because my JQ size not small too ;p

Of course, i cannot let JQ think that others can bully him too. So, sometimes, if others kid is too over, i will tell the kids cannot do this. And get back the thing to JQ, then ask them to play together. Of course, i will not just let JQ to play.

If someone comes to play together with him, he will play together with others, so far i think he never reject others. Good Boy! And, he will Q-up too, and said Pai-Dui :)

Last two weeks, Kelvin and i brought JQ to Jusco Kepong, then we played one game together. We have to throw ball to a screen, to hit the ghost, then we get point to proceed the next level. Supposingly, it should be played by JQ right? But then, Kelvin and I so excited, then we kept on throwing. JQ holding the ball, like don't know what he can do. Of course, he got throw the ball also. And, maybe he saw us so excited, he actually took the ball and pass to Kelvin to throw. Hahhahahhaha...actually JQ enjoy this games too. I think i will bring him there this weekend again :)

Most funny part was after we went home....Ok, after we played, there was another family waiting. So, we told JQ that our turn is finished, so have to let the Jie-Jie play. JQ very good boy, he said : Dao Jie-Jie Wan ah (means the Jie Jie turn to play). Then what so funny?? Coz until today, he will suddenly tell me: Ma-Ma, Dao Ji-Jie Wan ball-ball. Waahahhahahha....this means he really loves to play the game, although not really he played ;p and, he thaught that the Jie-Jie still playing till now....whahahhahha....you know how i answered for the last time he said so? I told him: Ya lor, the Jie-Jie play so long hor, till now also not yet finished....wahhahahhahah....

JQ, ok, Mama promise to bring you to play the ball-ball again. Your turn is coming :)