Ok, this is one of the video that i like :)
JQ started to learn crawl when he was about 10months. Quite late? Hehe, don't forget my JQ in huge size... ;p
Before JQ knew how to crawl, he learned how to sit back from the crawling position....really amazing...pls see the video, how he moved backward then sit...and, pls look at his expression, he always look cool when he was small....now he not that cool d, like to smile now... :)
this video still cannot show the sai-lei of JQ, sometime, when he sit up, his both leg actually in Yat-Zi-Ma (cantonese)....
Hello, I am JQ’s mother, Siow Hui. This blog is to record down story of my son, JQ. Hehe…actually JQ already 22 months, but now only I decided to write something to record his story. And, actually I suppose to write in Chinese words, but since my JQ has 11 Kai Ma and some of them don’t know Chinese words, so I have to write it in English. My English is ‘private limited co.’ so, pls forgive my broken English. I have no patient to check and correct my grammar or spelling error… ;p
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
we going to taiwan...
ok, Kelvin n I going to Taiwan together with JQ's Kai Ma...this time, JQ will not join us again...
Actually we bought air ticket for him, but as the weather in Taiwan super hot, and all relatives think that not suitable to bring JQ, also, got people frighthen me that maybe have Typhoon, i lagi tak berani bring JQ to Taiwan....
So, as previous, i have to discuss with JQ to get his approval... ;p hehe, sound like he is my boss, actually he is....just he never pay me, but i have to pay him...huh... ;p
Below my conversation with JQ:-
Mama: Papa and Mama go Taiwan Lui-Xing (travel), JQ stay together with Grandma and Grandpa ok or not.
JQ: Mai ah, JQ Yao Qu Lui Xing, Kan Mickey ah (no, JQ want to go travel, to see Mickey)
Mama: we not going to Hong Kong, we go Taiwan. Taiwan no Mickey.
JQ: Qu Zao Gong ah (go to look for grandpa - means look for my dad)
Mama: we not going to Hong Kong, so no Mickey, and cannot look for Gong. Taiwan very hot, JQ won't like it. JQ stay at home with Grandpa and Grandma, ok?
JQ: Mai ah.
Mama: JQ good boy, then mama buy pretty cloth for you from Taiwan, and bring you to Jusco playground
JQ: Yao ah, Diu ball-ball (i want, throw ball).
Mama: Ok, JQ good boy then mama bring you to throw ball.
JQ: Yao ah
Mama : Then, Papa and Mama can go Taiwan or not? Just 1 week
JQ: Mai ah. JQ Yao Qu Lui Xing, Kan Mickey ah (repeated from the beginning again....)
Hahahhahaha....
till now, JQ still not giving us approval yet. But i really don't want to bring him to Taiwan, too hot, i afraid he will sick. And, this time, the trip not a just Kelvin and I, and not just few days (we go Taiwan for 1 week), so will be not convenient if we bring JQ too...
JQ, maybe till the end, you still not giving us greenlight, but still we will have to leave you at home unwillingly....this is for your own good....next time, Mama will consider about the weather....Mama will miss u....
Actually we bought air ticket for him, but as the weather in Taiwan super hot, and all relatives think that not suitable to bring JQ, also, got people frighthen me that maybe have Typhoon, i lagi tak berani bring JQ to Taiwan....
So, as previous, i have to discuss with JQ to get his approval... ;p hehe, sound like he is my boss, actually he is....just he never pay me, but i have to pay him...huh... ;p
Below my conversation with JQ:-
Mama: Papa and Mama go Taiwan Lui-Xing (travel), JQ stay together with Grandma and Grandpa ok or not.
JQ: Mai ah, JQ Yao Qu Lui Xing, Kan Mickey ah (no, JQ want to go travel, to see Mickey)
Mama: we not going to Hong Kong, we go Taiwan. Taiwan no Mickey.
JQ: Qu Zao Gong ah (go to look for grandpa - means look for my dad)
Mama: we not going to Hong Kong, so no Mickey, and cannot look for Gong. Taiwan very hot, JQ won't like it. JQ stay at home with Grandpa and Grandma, ok?
JQ: Mai ah.
Mama: JQ good boy, then mama buy pretty cloth for you from Taiwan, and bring you to Jusco playground
JQ: Yao ah, Diu ball-ball (i want, throw ball).
Mama: Ok, JQ good boy then mama bring you to throw ball.
JQ: Yao ah
Mama : Then, Papa and Mama can go Taiwan or not? Just 1 week
JQ: Mai ah. JQ Yao Qu Lui Xing, Kan Mickey ah (repeated from the beginning again....)
Hahahhahaha....
till now, JQ still not giving us approval yet. But i really don't want to bring him to Taiwan, too hot, i afraid he will sick. And, this time, the trip not a just Kelvin and I, and not just few days (we go Taiwan for 1 week), so will be not convenient if we bring JQ too...
JQ, maybe till the end, you still not giving us greenlight, but still we will have to leave you at home unwillingly....this is for your own good....next time, Mama will consider about the weather....Mama will miss u....
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Wo Yao, Wo Yao...
Wo Yao = I want....
Lately, JQ learned the above. Everytime, he wanted something, he will said Wo Yao, Wo Yao (normally he will say Ni Yao = you want, so i have to correct him...). When he said Wo Yao, Wo Yao, he will actually stomp his leg, pretend to lao-gai....hahhaha....so cute!! This have to thank his Mama, coz last time, when i wanted JQ to share some thing with me, sometimes, i will act like that ;p
I tell you, really cute la, when he stomp....huh...he will jump a bit, stomp, then say Wo-Yao, Wo Yao. But you won't feel any lao-gai from him....but obviously, he wanted to act lao-gai....hahhahahhah.....don't understand ah?? then just leave it la ;p
Lately, JQ learned the above. Everytime, he wanted something, he will said Wo Yao, Wo Yao (normally he will say Ni Yao = you want, so i have to correct him...). When he said Wo Yao, Wo Yao, he will actually stomp his leg, pretend to lao-gai....hahhaha....so cute!! This have to thank his Mama, coz last time, when i wanted JQ to share some thing with me, sometimes, i will act like that ;p
I tell you, really cute la, when he stomp....huh...he will jump a bit, stomp, then say Wo-Yao, Wo Yao. But you won't feel any lao-gai from him....but obviously, he wanted to act lao-gai....hahhahahhah.....don't understand ah?? then just leave it la ;p
Kelvin is sick
Ya, Kelvin sick since Sunday night....then, what this related to JQ?? :)
Yesterday, Kelvin still sick, so he rest in the room. Later, when almost 10pm, i brought JQ went to the room to prepare him to sleep. Once he reached our room, he climbed up to bed, as we wanted to play the ipod again. I told JQ that Papa Sheng Bing oh (Papa sick), then JQ repeated my sentence : Papa Sheng Bing oh, with additional: Wan Game ah (means he wanted to play ipod)....hahahhaha
However, we told him that no ipod, coz Kelvin left at our Selayang house (we stayed SPK yesterday). Then, JQ changed plan la, he wanted to go down the bed to take his poker card. Before he went down, i asked him to go sayang his sick Papa.
JQ like very gan-jeong to take his poker, but i asked him to sayang his dad, so he turned back, climb to his dad in rush, and you know how he sayang his dad?? Maybe he so gan-jeong (on the poker, not his dad ;p), so he actually sayang his dad by 'slap' his dad face for two times, while he saying 'sayang, sayang'.....hahaha....then, after he 'slap', he quickly went down the bed to take his poker cards...not sincere sayang at all....
I did put a wet towel on Kelvin forehead to reduce his temperature. You know what? Kelvin fever til 39.1 degree Celcius. I told Kelvin that no wonder JQ fever also with so high temperature, coz JQ same as Kelvin too! Hahaha....
ok ok, back to topic...later, i removed the wet towel from Kelvin, coz the towel already hot. Once i removed, JQ said Papa Hao Liao oh (means Papa no more sick)....hahahha...
Later, i asked JQ to say Papa Jia You (papa add oil), then JQ said so to his dad la, with the Jia You post as well...so cute...
I think JQ still not realy understand the meaning of Sheng Bing, else he will sure sayang his dad :) Papa, Get Well Soon lor... :)
Yesterday, Kelvin still sick, so he rest in the room. Later, when almost 10pm, i brought JQ went to the room to prepare him to sleep. Once he reached our room, he climbed up to bed, as we wanted to play the ipod again. I told JQ that Papa Sheng Bing oh (Papa sick), then JQ repeated my sentence : Papa Sheng Bing oh, with additional: Wan Game ah (means he wanted to play ipod)....hahahhaha
However, we told him that no ipod, coz Kelvin left at our Selayang house (we stayed SPK yesterday). Then, JQ changed plan la, he wanted to go down the bed to take his poker card. Before he went down, i asked him to go sayang his sick Papa.
JQ like very gan-jeong to take his poker, but i asked him to sayang his dad, so he turned back, climb to his dad in rush, and you know how he sayang his dad?? Maybe he so gan-jeong (on the poker, not his dad ;p), so he actually sayang his dad by 'slap' his dad face for two times, while he saying 'sayang, sayang'.....hahaha....then, after he 'slap', he quickly went down the bed to take his poker cards...not sincere sayang at all....
I did put a wet towel on Kelvin forehead to reduce his temperature. You know what? Kelvin fever til 39.1 degree Celcius. I told Kelvin that no wonder JQ fever also with so high temperature, coz JQ same as Kelvin too! Hahaha....
ok ok, back to topic...later, i removed the wet towel from Kelvin, coz the towel already hot. Once i removed, JQ said Papa Hao Liao oh (means Papa no more sick)....hahahha...
Later, i asked JQ to say Papa Jia You (papa add oil), then JQ said so to his dad la, with the Jia You post as well...so cute...
I think JQ still not realy understand the meaning of Sheng Bing, else he will sure sayang his dad :) Papa, Get Well Soon lor... :)
Thursday, July 22, 2010
ipod again....
hehe, this is not about how good JQ play ipod la ;p
Actually i also like to play the Traffic Rush. So, i will ask JQ to play it take turn with me, means each of us play one time.
So, every time after he played, and if i am around, he will pass the ipod to me, and said: Dao Mama Liao (means Mama turn to play). Really good boy! Not only ipod la, like when i played toy with him, we will take turn to play too.
I only have one son mah, so must teach him sharing :) So, i will try to ask him share some thing with others, like take turn to play in playground, share his toys with others children come to our house, etc :) i think JQ quite sharing. But sometimes, some thing that he really like to play or eat, he will not let go easily ;p but still after you talk nice to him, he will share with you. Really Good Boy!
Oh, tumbang topic again ;p now, almost every night, JQ wants to play the ipod, so he will say : 10 Dian Liao Oh (10 O'clock, means time to go to room to prepare for sleep), then he will say Mama, Wan Game ah (play ipod). Then when we reach the room, he will climb up to bed (or sometimes asked me to put him on the bed), then he will lay on the Bedside, wait me to pass the ipod to him, and start the Deng Apple Xian, that i mentioned in previous page....ahahahahha....sometimes, if we don't want to let him play (told him no battery or Papa din bring home), he will cry a while (which is not real cry), then he will read book or look for others to play awhile before he brush his teeth and sleep :)
Ok, then end...
Actually i also like to play the Traffic Rush. So, i will ask JQ to play it take turn with me, means each of us play one time.
So, every time after he played, and if i am around, he will pass the ipod to me, and said: Dao Mama Liao (means Mama turn to play). Really good boy! Not only ipod la, like when i played toy with him, we will take turn to play too.
I only have one son mah, so must teach him sharing :) So, i will try to ask him share some thing with others, like take turn to play in playground, share his toys with others children come to our house, etc :) i think JQ quite sharing. But sometimes, some thing that he really like to play or eat, he will not let go easily ;p but still after you talk nice to him, he will share with you. Really Good Boy!
Oh, tumbang topic again ;p now, almost every night, JQ wants to play the ipod, so he will say : 10 Dian Liao Oh (10 O'clock, means time to go to room to prepare for sleep), then he will say Mama, Wan Game ah (play ipod). Then when we reach the room, he will climb up to bed (or sometimes asked me to put him on the bed), then he will lay on the Bedside, wait me to pass the ipod to him, and start the Deng Apple Xian, that i mentioned in previous page....ahahahahha....sometimes, if we don't want to let him play (told him no battery or Papa din bring home), he will cry a while (which is not real cry), then he will read book or look for others to play awhile before he brush his teeth and sleep :)
Ok, then end...
JQ and ipod
Ok, first of all, i will have to say that i don't the ipod is really ipod....it is Apple ipod, but no function as handphone....so, i guess u all know what is it? Or, it is called itouch? hmm...like got such thing right?? ;p
ok, back to the topic, and i will just assume as it is ipod ;p
You know what? JQ knows how to play ipod! Those who have ipod, you know that after you press the On button, the screen will show a 'apple'. You know what JQ will say : Deng Apple Xian (wait for the Apple first, means let it load first la)! Sometimes he will even show his 'Deng' post (his hand will show the Deng post).
After the 'apple' gone, it will show a screen, where you will need to 'slide to the right', before you can start to use the ipod. You know what, JQ knows how to 'slide' it ater he saw his dad to that for ONE times, when he was about 1.5 years old!!Amazing man! Initially, we thaught that just coincidence, but he can repeat it without fail! Huh, so i told Kelvin that JQ is IT boy...
This is still not yet the most amazing part! I just give an example here...JQ likes to play the Traffic Rush, one of the games in ipod, where, there are a lot of cars in the big cross junction, where you will need to control those cars to cross the load, so that they will not bang...Again, after seeing his dad played for one time, he knows how to play this games!
The most amazing part is: JQ knows how to drag around the ipod, to find out this Traffic Rush game, then he know which is the 'start' key! Then after Game Over, he knows which part to touch, so that he can continue for second games!! Of course, this not see one time, then he knows la. Initially, after Game Ove, he will pass it to me or his dad, and said Mama/Papa, An ah (press)....
You thaught this is coincidence, or because he saw us to the same a lot of time?? I tell you, ater he knows how to press, whenever new games he played, he can remember which where is the game, how to press, how to play and how to continue! JQ Li-Hai oh!! Oh ya hor, he like never praise himself on this ipod games.... ;p maybe he think that this is too easy?? Gosh...
Hmm...don't know next time in school, he will be so fast learning or not :)
ok, back to the topic, and i will just assume as it is ipod ;p
You know what? JQ knows how to play ipod! Those who have ipod, you know that after you press the On button, the screen will show a 'apple'. You know what JQ will say : Deng Apple Xian (wait for the Apple first, means let it load first la)! Sometimes he will even show his 'Deng' post (his hand will show the Deng post).
After the 'apple' gone, it will show a screen, where you will need to 'slide to the right', before you can start to use the ipod. You know what, JQ knows how to 'slide' it ater he saw his dad to that for ONE times, when he was about 1.5 years old!!Amazing man! Initially, we thaught that just coincidence, but he can repeat it without fail! Huh, so i told Kelvin that JQ is IT boy...
This is still not yet the most amazing part! I just give an example here...JQ likes to play the Traffic Rush, one of the games in ipod, where, there are a lot of cars in the big cross junction, where you will need to control those cars to cross the load, so that they will not bang...Again, after seeing his dad played for one time, he knows how to play this games!
The most amazing part is: JQ knows how to drag around the ipod, to find out this Traffic Rush game, then he know which is the 'start' key! Then after Game Over, he knows which part to touch, so that he can continue for second games!! Of course, this not see one time, then he knows la. Initially, after Game Ove, he will pass it to me or his dad, and said Mama/Papa, An ah (press)....
You thaught this is coincidence, or because he saw us to the same a lot of time?? I tell you, ater he knows how to press, whenever new games he played, he can remember which where is the game, how to press, how to play and how to continue! JQ Li-Hai oh!! Oh ya hor, he like never praise himself on this ipod games.... ;p maybe he think that this is too easy?? Gosh...
Hmm...don't know next time in school, he will be so fast learning or not :)
JQ Sa-Sa
Sa-Sa = act silly(in cantonese is Sor)
JQ very funny. Sometimes, he will do something very 'silly', but funny, for example, he will suddenly laugh very laugh and his face will have those funny expressions, while we playing something, where we all don't understand what made him laugh so happily...then i will say : JQ Sa-Sa...
Yesterday, we played 'throw the ball'. I put a basketball in the center of living room, then he used the soft blocked to throw onto it. He very enjoy with this games, and we repeated almost 10 times (10 times x more than 20 soft blocks....huh)! Then, when we playing, he suddenly will laugh loudly with his funny face, then he himself said : Mama, JQ Sa-Sa! Hahahhahhaha....so funny la....
oh, tumpang in this topic la...;p yesterday, after i lazy with the 'throw the ball' game, then i asked JQ to lay down on the floor, then i put the soft blocks on his tummy and stacked high, and asked JQ to hold them so that they will not fall. JQ so happy, and he will purposely made them floor so that those soft blocks will drop on to his face, then he laugh happily, and kept on saying : Hai Yao ah (still want). He really super cute :)
after that, i told him i also wanted to play, so i laid down and asked him to put the soft blocks on my tummy. He just put two, then stop, then say : Dao JQ Liao(means JQ turn to play)....hahahhahaha....
JQ very funny. Sometimes, he will do something very 'silly', but funny, for example, he will suddenly laugh very laugh and his face will have those funny expressions, while we playing something, where we all don't understand what made him laugh so happily...then i will say : JQ Sa-Sa...
Yesterday, we played 'throw the ball'. I put a basketball in the center of living room, then he used the soft blocked to throw onto it. He very enjoy with this games, and we repeated almost 10 times (10 times x more than 20 soft blocks....huh)! Then, when we playing, he suddenly will laugh loudly with his funny face, then he himself said : Mama, JQ Sa-Sa! Hahahhahhaha....so funny la....
oh, tumpang in this topic la...;p yesterday, after i lazy with the 'throw the ball' game, then i asked JQ to lay down on the floor, then i put the soft blocks on his tummy and stacked high, and asked JQ to hold them so that they will not fall. JQ so happy, and he will purposely made them floor so that those soft blocks will drop on to his face, then he laugh happily, and kept on saying : Hai Yao ah (still want). He really super cute :)
after that, i told him i also wanted to play, so i laid down and asked him to put the soft blocks on my tummy. He just put two, then stop, then say : Dao JQ Liao(means JQ turn to play)....hahahhahaha....
Thursday, July 8, 2010
JQ cannot 'move' ...
What happened to JQ?? Why cannot move?? When JQ was small, about 1 year old, he very funny. If you let him lay down on the floor, he will not move at all! He actually knew how to turn his body (on bed or any place that is soft), but he afraid of pain (when u sleep on the floor, if u move, you will pain), so if you put him on the floor, then he will not move! He will cry for help! So, if he naughty, then this is how we purnish him! Of course, sometimes, i purposely do so ;p Coz he really funny la! But i think about 14months, he no more like this. So, cannot punish him like this anymore ;p
Enjoy the movie! Pls look at JQ face expression, which is very funny ;p
Enjoy the movie! Pls look at JQ face expression, which is very funny ;p
JQ learn how to speak....
JQ started to learn how to speak about 10months old...
in the video, he kept on ba-ba-ba, his mouth very cute ;p
oh, that time, we recorded the video using camera, and we didn't know that we cannot take video vertically, so end up, we cannot make the video to horizontal, therefore, pls turn your head a bit la ;p hehe...
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
JQ in Genting
Yeah, another cute video of JQ, which taken when he was about 5months old.
The video was taken when we in First World Hotel. As the eather quite cold, so i 'wrap' JQ with his blanket. Haha...he so cute!
Then, he cannot move, and started to scream, and got one part, he like want to bite me coz cannot move....hhhahahhaha...enjoy :P
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Jiu-Ming ah = HELP!!!
Jiu-Ming ah!
Yes, JQ knows how to say Jiu Ming!! Who taught him? His good Mama ;p
Hehe, don't know why, i think little kids say Jiu-Ming is very cute, and also very important, if got bad man/woman want to hurt them.
I trained JQ said Jiu-Ming before he 1 year old. And, he knew how to say Jiu-Ming when he about 15months. Oh, interested how i trained JQ?? Hehe...
When JQ small, i like to play with him before he slept, actualy now also la. Then, i will catch his hands or legs, and don't let him move. Then, he will say Mai Ah, so i will correct him to say Jiu Ming! Of course initially he didn't know how to say la ;p
Slowly, he learned! And, he really Green Out From Blue, he really fully utilise this Jiu-Ming....he not only say Jiu Ming when we catch his hands/legs, but whenever we do something that against his will, he will say Jiu-Ming....this really make us laugh!
For example, if we gu-ci him, he will say Jiu Ming ah, if we hold his toys and don't want to let go, he will say Jiu-Mingah, if we hug him strong and don't let him leave, he will also say Jiu-Ming ah. And, the way he say Jiu-Ming, not just say ler, his expression hor, really like very 'suffer'.....aakkakkkakakkaka....
sometimes, i will purposely 'play' him, so that he will say Jiu-Ming, coz he is super cute!!! whahahhahahha....
Yes, JQ knows how to say Jiu Ming!! Who taught him? His good Mama ;p
Hehe, don't know why, i think little kids say Jiu-Ming is very cute, and also very important, if got bad man/woman want to hurt them.
I trained JQ said Jiu-Ming before he 1 year old. And, he knew how to say Jiu-Ming when he about 15months. Oh, interested how i trained JQ?? Hehe...
When JQ small, i like to play with him before he slept, actualy now also la. Then, i will catch his hands or legs, and don't let him move. Then, he will say Mai Ah, so i will correct him to say Jiu Ming! Of course initially he didn't know how to say la ;p
Slowly, he learned! And, he really Green Out From Blue, he really fully utilise this Jiu-Ming....he not only say Jiu Ming when we catch his hands/legs, but whenever we do something that against his will, he will say Jiu-Ming....this really make us laugh!
For example, if we gu-ci him, he will say Jiu Ming ah, if we hold his toys and don't want to let go, he will say Jiu-Mingah, if we hug him strong and don't let him leave, he will also say Jiu-Ming ah. And, the way he say Jiu-Ming, not just say ler, his expression hor, really like very 'suffer'.....aakkakkkakakkaka....
sometimes, i will purposely 'play' him, so that he will say Jiu-Ming, coz he is super cute!!! whahahhahahha....
We went to Redang...
My company trip for this year is Redang. Kelvin and i went Redang together with my colleagues. Supposingly, we want to bring JQ along, but my mother and my parents-in-law not agreed, so end up just Kelvin and i...of course, i also think that Redang trip not suitable for a 2-year-old boy...
This is a 'sad' story...pls prepare tissue when u wanted to read this...maybe is a sad story for a sad mother like me la....
I started to tell JQ that Kelvin n i will be away for few days for Lui-Sing (trip) and Zuo-Gong (work), and asked him OK or not. Those read by old post, you will know that if JQ said No, then if we do it, he will be angry n will lao-gai. So, since he said no, i will have to continue to pursuade him, till he said ok...
Few days before our trip, JQ finally said Ok, then he said : Ahhh, Mai Ah (means he will not 'Ahhhh' or scream or lao-gain when we not around:) So, i told JQ that he was a good boy.
On 1/7, Kelvin called me and said when i reached home, pls call his father, so that his father will bring JQ to go out, so that JQ will not see usleaving, then he will not cry. I knew that this arrangement was not good, but i did not object, since Kelvin already agreed, and my in-law who helped me to take care JQ wanted to do so. This is a big fault!
I knew that JQ will not cry even he saw us, and i felt that JQ wanted to say goodbye to us, same as me, i would like to say goodbye to JQ before we went to Redang....end up, we really did not say Goodbye to JQ... :(
When we in Redang, JQ really very good boy, he really did not 'Ahhhh' (means he did not lao-gai). But when during sleeping time, he did look for us, so my in-law told him that we went to work, so he was ok, but he looks a bit sad la. And, in the midnight, he will call Papa and Mama in his dream....he missing us....pity boy!
Oh, when we in Redang, Kelvin's sister take care of JQ at night. And, no need to say, i missed JQ a lot when we in the Redang trip. I kept telling Kelvin that if JQ is here, he will do this do that....JQ will sure happy!
Then yesterday night, we reached home late. We reached about 11pm. JQ already went upstairs. He did not sleep, and my in-law said he got lao-gai a bit, as someone told him that we coming back, so he wanted to wait for us.
Then, huh, feel like 1 2 cry now...i ran up to my room to see my lovely JQ. Then, we met half way, as my sister-in-law brought JQ down. When JQ saw me, i knew that he was surprised and happy, then he let me carry him. BUT, then, he asked my sis-in-law to carry him, he didn't want me to carry him! I knew he angry on me, coz i did not say goodbye to him when we went to Redang. You know what, he didn't want to look at me too...my heart so pain then! My tear almost came out at that moment!
I can feel that he actually missed me, but he also angry on me, so he didn't want to look at me and didn't want to let me carry him. After i comfort him, and said sorry to him, then only he let me carry him, but i still feel that he still angry on me...
Then, i let him read book, talked with him, played with him, apologized with him again, then slowly, he is ok, and i know he forgive us. Then, we asked him to give us big hug, and he gave us a very big hug...
At night, i still let him slept by his own, and i tap him to sleep. He cannot sleep but he did not make noise and look at me quietly, like afraid we will leave again... After i told him that we will not leave, and will sleep together with him, then only he slept, and his hand put on my face to ensure that i will not leave...my heart so pain then....my son still so small, but he already so lovly, anyhow, we hurt his heart....
In the midnight, he suddenly called Mama. I woke up and checked on him, then i told him that Mama is here. Then he put his little palm on my face, and continue to sleep...i really blame myself that time...
I told myself that i will never leave JQ without saying goodbye to him!! Unless very very special case that i cannot think of now....
JQ, Mama very sorry to you! Please forgive us, and this will not happen again...Now, i worried on our Taiwan trip. But i know the trip really not suitable to JQ, i will talk to JQ next week, to prepare him...or, i should really consider to bring JQ along??
This is a 'sad' story...pls prepare tissue when u wanted to read this...maybe is a sad story for a sad mother like me la....
I started to tell JQ that Kelvin n i will be away for few days for Lui-Sing (trip) and Zuo-Gong (work), and asked him OK or not. Those read by old post, you will know that if JQ said No, then if we do it, he will be angry n will lao-gai. So, since he said no, i will have to continue to pursuade him, till he said ok...
Few days before our trip, JQ finally said Ok, then he said : Ahhh, Mai Ah (means he will not 'Ahhhh' or scream or lao-gain when we not around:) So, i told JQ that he was a good boy.
On 1/7, Kelvin called me and said when i reached home, pls call his father, so that his father will bring JQ to go out, so that JQ will not see usleaving, then he will not cry. I knew that this arrangement was not good, but i did not object, since Kelvin already agreed, and my in-law who helped me to take care JQ wanted to do so. This is a big fault!
I knew that JQ will not cry even he saw us, and i felt that JQ wanted to say goodbye to us, same as me, i would like to say goodbye to JQ before we went to Redang....end up, we really did not say Goodbye to JQ... :(
When we in Redang, JQ really very good boy, he really did not 'Ahhhh' (means he did not lao-gai). But when during sleeping time, he did look for us, so my in-law told him that we went to work, so he was ok, but he looks a bit sad la. And, in the midnight, he will call Papa and Mama in his dream....he missing us....pity boy!
Oh, when we in Redang, Kelvin's sister take care of JQ at night. And, no need to say, i missed JQ a lot when we in the Redang trip. I kept telling Kelvin that if JQ is here, he will do this do that....JQ will sure happy!
Then yesterday night, we reached home late. We reached about 11pm. JQ already went upstairs. He did not sleep, and my in-law said he got lao-gai a bit, as someone told him that we coming back, so he wanted to wait for us.
Then, huh, feel like 1 2 cry now...i ran up to my room to see my lovely JQ. Then, we met half way, as my sister-in-law brought JQ down. When JQ saw me, i knew that he was surprised and happy, then he let me carry him. BUT, then, he asked my sis-in-law to carry him, he didn't want me to carry him! I knew he angry on me, coz i did not say goodbye to him when we went to Redang. You know what, he didn't want to look at me too...my heart so pain then! My tear almost came out at that moment!
I can feel that he actually missed me, but he also angry on me, so he didn't want to look at me and didn't want to let me carry him. After i comfort him, and said sorry to him, then only he let me carry him, but i still feel that he still angry on me...
Then, i let him read book, talked with him, played with him, apologized with him again, then slowly, he is ok, and i know he forgive us. Then, we asked him to give us big hug, and he gave us a very big hug...
At night, i still let him slept by his own, and i tap him to sleep. He cannot sleep but he did not make noise and look at me quietly, like afraid we will leave again... After i told him that we will not leave, and will sleep together with him, then only he slept, and his hand put on my face to ensure that i will not leave...my heart so pain then....my son still so small, but he already so lovly, anyhow, we hurt his heart....
In the midnight, he suddenly called Mama. I woke up and checked on him, then i told him that Mama is here. Then he put his little palm on my face, and continue to sleep...i really blame myself that time...
I told myself that i will never leave JQ without saying goodbye to him!! Unless very very special case that i cannot think of now....
JQ, Mama very sorry to you! Please forgive us, and this will not happen again...Now, i worried on our Taiwan trip. But i know the trip really not suitable to JQ, i will talk to JQ next week, to prepare him...or, i should really consider to bring JQ along??
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