3rd time in Gleneagle....

Ya, JQ admitted Gleneagle again...this time coz high fever, and diarrhea.

Sunday 1.30am, i found that JQ having fever (i got a habit if i go toilet in the midnight, i will go check JQ...luckily), quite high 38.8C, so i quickly given a medicine to him (insert to ass hole). His fever dropped to below 38C after about 1hour+ and we kept on mopping his body to lower down the temperature.

I would have to say that we already 'biasa' with JQ frightening temperature, i mean above 39, so when we found that his temperature is 38 or below, we will 'not that worry', even that is a high temperature for a kid....

When about 7am, JQ fever still around 38, so we quickly brought him to those 24hours clinic. Doctor insert another type of medincine to JQ's buttock around 8.45am. However, the temperature still not dropping, even we kept mopping his body. Ok, not just not dropping, but increasing...39+

So, about 11am+, we brought him to the clinic again, as the doctor said if JQ temperature not dropping or having rashes, then we should bring JQ to see him again. We actually already get ready to go A&E in Gleneagle, so we need to ask the medicine that given by doctor as well. So, when Kelvin met the nurse and doctor, he told him that we already mop JQ since came back from clinic, and the temperature still not drop. So, the doctor asked us to admit hospital.

So, we quickly rush to Gleneagle. You maybe surprise that why i did not bring JQ to Gleneagle directly, but to the 24hours clinic in the morning. Coz from the 'previous experience' (this is not a good experience), i found that the medicine of Gleneagle is actually similar to others clinic, so no need to go Gleneagle unless critical. Besides, usually the A&E will not let JQ admit hospital, and will tell me that they can't do much even let him admitted hospital, so we can take care JQ at home.

When we reach Gleneagle, JQ's temperature is 39. But a lot of patient there, so when reach JQ turn, JQ temperature actually already drop below 38. So, i think that should be still same as previous experience (coz same A&E doctor that checking JQ too)...going home later. I told doctor of all JQ symptom to the doctor, and he told me that JQ needed to admit hospital after finished checking on JQ. In my heart, i saying: SHIT! (means this time serious...). Then he started to explain to me (i already started to feel something really bad, coz usually he seldom explain to me...) the reason of JQ will have high fever and diarrhea...

I tried to calm down myself, as i need to understand the situation. But when he told me that JQ having the influenza H1N1 symptom, i really felt that my tear coming out and telan to my tummy...anyway, he said that is just symptom, a lot of others sickness also having the symptom of high fever, diarrhea, flu and cough.

After checking the Rapid test of H1N1, it showed negative....huh, i know it sure not H1N1, but still feel very relieve. But doctor said need to retest with PCR to ensure not H1N1, terus my heart drop. But i know sure not H1N1 la. Don't ask me why, i just know, it sure not!!

Then JQ looks ok, my in-law and my mum came to visit JQ, he still quite active. However, JQ still diarhhea quite frequent (oh, he needs to do dripping, so that to prevent him from dehydration).

When about 9pm, i started to feel something wrong with JQ. He told me that he stomach pain, so i let him to ng-ng, then i noticed BLOOD!! My heart so nervous, but i still calm down myself, else i will frighthen JQ. Then after i cleaned him up, he vomit on to the floor. And, i can feel that his fever suddenly shut up.

I quickly go out and look for a nurse to check his temperature, 38.5. But cannot take medicine yet, coz just 9pm, only can take medicine at 10pm. And as he diarrhea, cannot put medicine to buttock again. When i telling the nurse that JQ's diarrhea with blood (not stain, but a lot blood for a 2years old boy...) and shivering said very cold, my tears really came out. I tell you, i think so far, JQ is the only male that make me cry for so many times...haahahhaha...try not to make this post too sad and nervous....

When about 9.45pm, nurse come to check him again....gosh, break record again! 40.5 degree celcius! And he was shivering. I kept on talk to him, ask him if he felt cold (he said yes) or if he feeling any stomachache (he said no). He still quite concious, as he given me the same answer everytime i ask him.

Suppose the nurse said given his medicine at 9.45pm (15min earlier), but end up ding-ding-dong-dong, still taken at 10pm. Luckily his temperature started to go down after 1 hour...and, then no more fever till now.

Anyway, his berak still with blood stain till now. I got told doctor, he said in this case, quite confirmed that it is bacteria infection, so need to let JQ take antibiotic (else he said wait for 3days if needed to give antibiotic or not).

Anyway, JQ looks ok now, at least no fever (highest 37.3 for today) and less diarrhea compare to yesterday, so, hope he can discharge tomorrow, but i think maybe Wed, coz need to let him take the strong antibiotic (inject to the blood stream instead of taken orally).

Ok, will tell some 'funny' story when we in Gleneagle in next post...now time to sleep (11.20pm), else no time to rest ...

Wo Hui Die Dao!

One morning, after JQ took bath, then i wanted to walk downstair together with JQ. So, i took his milk bottles and dirty cloth, so no more free hand to hold JQ's hand. So:

Mama : JQ, you walk down yourself ya. Careful!
JQ : Mummy, Qian Shou, Wo Hui Die Dao! (mummy, hold my hand, i will fall down)
Mama : .... (speechless..)

wahahahhahaha....

usually, when we walk up/downstair, i will hold JQ's hand, coz afraid he will fall down mah, but he sometimes don't want me to hold his hand, so i will say if not holding his hand, then he may fall down...

That day, i no hand to hold him, then he said Wo Hui Die Dao! Somemore he sai it so serious! Really made me laugh! Wahahhahaha....Kids really learn from adult....

End up, i still hold his hand la, made me so difficult to walk down with all the stuff and most important, my cute son .... :)

JQ Hao Shuang!

Hao Shuang = so syiok

This morning,after i let JQ drank his milk, he turned his body, so his back facing me. Since is time to wake up (we need to go work), so i gu-ci him gently on his buttock and back side, to kacau him, so that he wake up...

Mana tau, he turned to me and said with his smiling face : JQ Hao Shuang!!

Waahhahahhaha....speechless.....

Then he still want me to gu-ci him....ahahhahahha....

if you gu-ci his tummy, then he will not say Hao Shuang, but Jiu Ming!!!

Oh, yesterday, when Kelvin drive us back, he gu-ci JQ in front of the traffic light. Then JQ said : Stop! JQ Yao Chang Ge
(he really said STOP!....with his hand showing the stop post JQ 1 2 sing song)

Wahahhahhaha....

JQ and Lego

JQ likes to play lego, but not really to 'build' but 'destroy' them.... ;p

He has Lego at home, present for his two years old birthday. He will ask you to stack the Lego high, then he used something to collapse them!! Hahaha....destroyer....

He likes to go The Garden (Robinson), coz they got Lego table, and he can play with others kids.

Last Sat, i followed my mum to The Garden, as my brother having class in Mid Valley, so my mum helping there. Then, i bring JQ to play Lego again....so tiring! We played there almost 3hours!! Till he wanted to Shi-Shi then only stop....

Near Lego there, got also spade (plastic type, used to play sand in beach). He took the space to scoop the Lego...hahahahha....actually he learned from a little boy there la, few months elder than JQ, but JQ size much bigger ;p He saw people used the spade, he also took lor, like playing masak-masak.... ;p

Two litle boys played so happy...two mother ask them to stop playing, coz time to have milk/go back, but they don't want....till JQ wanted to shi-shi only stop...

You know what, after he shi-shi and drink milk, we continued to play there!!! Huh, coz he kept on want to look for my brother...Pengsan, play another 1hour+ then we go dinner. After dinner, he terus tidur inside the car!! Coz too tired, play for the whole day....

Happy Lego Day!! ;)

JQ missed his dad...

Last weekend, Kelvin went to Cameron Highland to take couple photo.

So, we overnight at my mum house on Fri night (Sat night too), coz Kelvin going to Cameron Sat early morning. Then at night, Kelvin called us, and then i put on to JQ. When JQ heard his dad voice, he said : Papa, Papa, wo yao hui jia (Papa,i want to go home), and he repeated this for few times, like my mum house got people bully him ;p

JQ is like that want, when time to sleep, he will ask us to go home ;p

Then Sunday, i told JQ that his Papa is coming back soon. Then, whenever he heard got the auto-gate open/close sound, he will say: yoh, Papa Hui Lai Liao oh (papa come back d). His expression so cute!!

Then this morning, when he wake up, he saw his Papa, he said, Papa Hui Lai Liao, with his sweet and happy smiling face.....i think Kelvin sure feel very sweet...:)

Our son is really a lovely son :)

Da Pi Gu...

This morning, raining, what a nice weather to sleep...

After JQ drink his milk, i carried him to our bed, else he will make noise to ask me to carry him. Then Kelvin lay on the bed, and his hand (or body) put on JQ's leg.

JQ said : Papa Qi Shen, wo yao da pi gu liao! (Papa wake up, i want to beat your buttock!)

He repeated this few times, coz Kelvin didn't wake up....Hahhahhahhaa.....

You see, you see? Kids really learned what you said!! ;p

Ok, sometimes, when i asked JQ to wake up or don't lay on the bed/sofa, but he refused, then i will said : Wake up, else Mama will Da Pi Gu....

aakakkakakka....

You know what, he really go and beat his dad, but tummy, coz cannot 'flip' his dad to beat his dad buttock...

akkakakkkkaka....my son super cute la!

Yao Bu Yao? Yao!

JQ very funny....he will ask question then answer himself ;p and, the way he asked, actually follow our way/tune...

Normally, when we have sometime to eat or play, i will ask JQ : Yao Bu Yao Chi/Wan (want to eat/play)? Then he will answer me Yao or Mai (Hokkien, means no)

So, lately, if he saw something that he want to do something, he will 'ask and answer' :

JQ Yao Bu Yao Wan? Yao!
JQ yao qu wa ma jia ma? Yao! (JQ wants to go grandma house or not? Want!)
JQ ke yi qu diu ball-ball ma? Ke Yi! (JQ can go throw ball or not? Can!)

hahahhahha.....my son really super cute!!! muak muak muak!!!

JQ is politician??

Why i will have this thought? hmmm....coz JQ will try to avoid himself in conflict....hahhahhaha, sound so kua-jeong ;p maybe more appropriate to say good PR? dunno la, whatever la, he happy enough.... ;p

Sometimes, Kelvin and I will kacau JQ. For example, I will ask him:

Me : JQ, Papa Mei or JQ Mei (Mei = pretty)?
JQ : JQ Mei (sometimes, he will say Papa)
Me : Mummy Mei or JQ Mei?
JQ : Mummy Mei
Me : Papa Mei or Mummy Mei?

JQ will stop and no answer....he knows he answer who also cannot....then he will smile and don't want to answer, even you gu-ci him also he will not answer. Sometimes, if you ask him again, he will say JQ Mei....so small also know answer in this way!! That's why i think he can be good politician....whahahahhah....ok ok, good PR... ;p

Kai-Ma...

Few days ago (after Kai Ma Yin Wai's wedding),JQ suddenly said:

JQ : Mama, wo men qu zao kai ma (we go loo for Kai Ma)
Me : Ni yao zao na yi ge kai ma? (which kai ma u looking for?)

JQ stunned and stopped there, then he think think, he laugh....he must suddenly realised that he has so many kai ma, then he forgot the name of the kai ma that he looking for....i saw him laugh, then i laugh also....

I told this to her Kai Ma Ling Tze, Ling Tze asked me to show him photo of KaiMa to see which Kai Ma he looking for.

So, yesterday i showed him....he saw the photo, he said Kai Ma oh....then i asked him, which kai ma u looking for? Then he smiled and runaway....

aakkakakkaka....

JQ zuo-gong

Yesterday, when we watching TV, then suddenly, JQ said:

JQ: ok, JQ yao qu zuo gong har (JQ wants to go work d....he follow the way i told him every morning before i go work ;p)
Me: Where you go to work? What you do?
JQ: JQ bu hui ma di de (JQ don't know how to mop floor one)
Then, he continue to play his toys....

The way he said the above was so cute!!!

Bird Bird ....neh....

Got one day, i think few months ago, we went to a Japanese restaurant for dinner. JQ is famous there, those waitress like to play with him.

JQ wanted to go toilet, so i carried him to toilet lor. The one of the waitress saw her (she in the cashier, which is next to the toilet), so she ask JQ where is the bird? Without thinking, JQ pointed his bird bird and said "Neh..." whaahahhahahha.....

The waitress actually asking the real bird hang at the cashier, but JQ thought she asking her bird bird...

So cute....

Excuse Me...

Yes, JQ is very polite boy, he knows how and when to say Excuse me.

However, he cannot pronounce correctly yet. He will say : Excue me....no 's'. When he will say Excue Me? He really smart, he knows

If you block his view to watch his cartoon:
JQ : Excue Me, wo yao can tv (i want to watch TV)

If he wants to go some where, but you block his way:
JQ : Excue Me!! Excue Me!!

If he wants to drink milk, but you sit on his sofa where he usually sleep :
JQ : Excue Me, wo yao nek-nek (i want to drink milk)

If he wants to play something, but you block the place:
JQ : Excue Me, wo yao wan (I want to play)

The way he said Excue me really very cute! You should try when you meet him :) i like to hear he said excue me, so, i like to block him ;p

break record

Yes, JQ break his own record again....fever up to 40.5 degree celcius!! not a good record.

Last Friday, my in-law called me about 1pm, said JQ like havin like fever. As that time the clinic is closed, so my in-law said will give him eat fever medicine, and i said will bring him see doctor at night.

Who knows, about 3pm+, JQ suddenly fever up to 39C+, luckily my in-law called Kelvin, as i was in meeting in Klang. So, Kelvin brought him to clinic. Doctor insert the medicine at his buttock, however, his fever still not coming down when i reached home 5.30pm after the meeting.

Then, after dinner, we bring him to see his Kai-Ye (we said the doctor is his god-father, that's why he wants to see him once every few months). Doctor said he very hot inside the body, will fever for few days.

After back from clinic, we let him drink medicine. But his fever still not down, so we let him have the medicine in buttock again after one hour. But when about 12am, his fever shut up to 40.5C and his body shivering! We kept on help him to mop his body since back from the clinic, still no help, but the fever like higher and higher. My tears really come out, and heart so pain...pity boy

We quickly pack our things, and bring him to Gleneagle emergency. That time, his fever is 39.7C. Doctor gave him another type of medicine at the buttock. Anyway, doctor said no need to admit, as they also cannot do anything. So, we went back.

I really regret that i did not insist to ask doctor to let JQ admist hospital. Coz JQ fever still maintain 39C after back from hospital. I did not insist, coz the first time JQ admitted hospital, the doctor really did not do anything except given medicine every 4 hours, and observed his temperature, which i also can do at home. My colleague told me (when i back to work), actually hospital can diao-shui (mandarin), so that fever can go down faster. But i hope no need in future....

JQ still fever the whole night, till the next morning, the fever was about 38.5 and above. Actually this consider high for a kid, but as JQ record usualy 39+, this 38.5 let us feel like this is wet-wet-water....huh....and, he like kolar bear for the whole day...

His fever still up and down for the Saturday. Then in the mid night, he suddenly sweat a lot, till the bed also wet. Then his fever ok d, i mean no more fever.

Sunday, suppose we need to go JQ's Kai Ma (Sam) birthday, but as we afraid his fever will come back again, so we didn't. His fever really come back in the afternoon, but not too high, about 38C.

Monday, i suppose to go work, but he suddenly got fever again, below 38, so, i have to take EL, coz doctor said if he still fever on Monday, then should bring him to hospital. Then in the evening, he suddenly sweat a lot, then no more fever....

Tueday, he has flu, so we bring him to see doctor, at least to check if he ok for the throat infection (doctor said his fever cause of this). Doctor said he should be ok d...huh, relieve....

Wednesday, after dinner, he got light fever, but after taking medicine, he ok d.

Hope he is ok....as this weekend is his Kai-Ma Yin Wai wedding!!! :) JQ said he wants to take photo :)

JQ with Grandpa

Ok, last week, my dad back from oversea, and since my parents was free, so they asked me to bring JQ to their house, so that they can play with him.

So, in the morning, before work, i brought JQ to my parents house. JQ loves to go my parents house, maybe because got different toys to play. Sometimes, when he lao-gai, he will tell my in-law that he wanted to go my parents house (Wo Yao Qu Wa-Ma Jia). Then, my in-law will ask him to walk there ;p coz my mum house is just 2 streets behind my in-law house

Ok Ok, back to the topic. As my mum went out a while, so my dad take care JQ. JQ was so funny, made my dad laugh. Even my dad told me the story, i also laugh non stop...

Story 1: Wo Jiao Ni (i teach u)
JQ : Wa Gong, wo yao chi orange (Grandpa, i want to eat orange)
Grandpa : Ok, later ask Kakak to cut for you
JQ : Mai ah, wo yao orange (no, i want orange)
Grandpa : Grandpa don't know how to cut
JQ : Wo Jiao Ni (i teach u)

Whahahhahahha....so cute!! Actually, JQ meant that he bring my dad to go take orange from fridge. Can't stop laughing....

Story 2 : Dai Hao Lai (wear properly)
My dad actually wearing spec, but if when see near, then he no need to wear spec. That day, my dad play rubix cube with JQ, as he seeing near thing, so he lower down his spec (still on his nose la, just lower down, so that he can see without the spec). Then, JQ climbed up to the sofa, then used his hand to help my dad to wear the spec properly, sambil cakap : Dai Hao Lai. Wahahahhahha....so cute!!

Story 3 : Cuo Liao (wrong)
My dad and JQ went out, so my dad asked JQ to wear his slipper. JQ knows how to wear slipper by himself, but sometimes will wear wrongly. So, that day, he wore wrongly, then he kept on kick his leg (he doesn't know how to remove yet, so he will kick till the shoes drop off ;p), and said Cuo Liao, Cuo Liao. But my dad did not notice, so he didn't know why JQ lao-gai, and cannot understand what JQ said, only after a while he saw JQ wear wrongly, then only he understand that JQ said Cuo Liao Cuo Liao. Akakakakkakka....

Story 4 : Zhe Yang (like this)
This actually happened yesterday when i went to my mum house yesterday. JQ paying poker cards. He put the card on a hole of a chair, so the cards will drop onto the floor. Then, my dad played with him, but he pura-pura don't know how to put, then JQ this time really teach my dad ;p he showed my dad how to put, and then said : Zhe Yang. And, the way JQ said Zhe Yang, really is the 'teaching' tune....akakakakaka....

Ok, the end... ;p

JQ and Drum

I think i mentioned before in others post that JQ likes to play drum. And, he also like to watch the above video in you tube, hip hop drum ;)

He will even take his drum, and try to follow them!! Eh, don't play play, some times, really accurate, although not complete la ;p

After watched, he will point others video to watch. He will point others video, and said Zhe Ge, Zhe Ge....till you open the video for him....sometimes, even knock the screen using his drum stick...huh...

and, most funny is, after he watched the above hip hop drum, he will also want to watch the below...don't know why this can link to the hip hop drum....whahahhahhaha



I will then let him dance together...take his cloth up, see his big tummy, and dance together with the Jie Jie ;p he is so cute!!! Pls imagaine how he dance, how i 'move' his tummy ;p and, his funny face ;p

JQ and Turtle

Besides fish, JQ like turtle. He will scream very loud : TURTLE and excited when he saw turtle.

He also has one turtle big soft toy, presented by Kelvin's cousin during JQ's one year old birthday. We put the turtle in my in-law house, and on his own bed.

JQ very cute. Ok, he will sleep on his bed to drink his milk before he sleep. Then, sometimes, he will say either one of the below:

1) Turtle Kan Wo He NeNe (Turtle see me drink milk)
2) Gei Turtle He (let turtle drink his milk). Then if i gave to turtle, he will lao-gai, then said Mai (no). Then after i give him, he will say Turtle Mai Nene (Turtle don't want milk)...
3) Gei Turtle big hug (give big hug to turtle), then he really go hug the turtle. Sometimes, will even kiss the turtle

If you hide his turtle, he will cry ler, but not real cry...He will say Turtle Bu-Jian-Liao, hng,hng,hng (not real cry). Or, sometimes, he will say Turtle Qu Lui Xing (turtle go travel)...hahahhahahha....

Actually the first toy that we bought to him is also turtle. We bought it in KLCC aquarium, JQ loves it so much, and very expensive too. That time, JQ should be 7-8months. Maybe he did not hold properly, then it dropped in KLCC, and we did not notice, so cannot find...i think he had the turtle less than 2 hours... :( i still can remember the turtle face, it like the turtle in Finding Nemo ;p

Actually, i also like turtle, don't know why. If u ask me to get a pet, i will sure choose Turtle :)

Hope JQ will be long life like turtle, and smart and strong like turtle (eh, a lot of movie hor, turtle also very smart ler ;p like kungfu panda, ninja)

Gen Mummy King-Gai

Gen Mummy King-Gai = Chat with Mummy

Ya, i will chat with JQ, and JQ will chat with me :) What we chat? Whether JQ naughty or not la, what he want to play la, what he want to eat la, where he want to go la....etc... ;p and this can be repeated ;p

When we stayed in my in-law house, my bed is joined with JQ's bed, coz his single bed has no 'block', so i afraid he fall down, so block it using our bed ;)

Then, got one morning, he called me, and i pura-pura tidur. Then he crawl over me, then adjusted the pillow himself, then sleep beside me. I really laugh inside....so cute!!!

Then, the second and third time, he also called me, then crawl over me again, said Gen Mummy King-Gai! JQ Gen Mummy Ooi-Ooi (sleep with mummy). Then he will look at me happily with his electric eyes and smiling face, then used his hand to touch my face....oh no, heart also melted....so sweet and warm.

My son is the best!!

Oh, we not only King-Gai on the bed la, we also will King-Gai or sing together inside the car, living hall etc :) he will chat with me a lot of thing, which you never expect what he going to say....sometimes, he maybe forgot the term, then he will repeat ...Mummy, mummy, mummy, Wo Yao Qu Jusco....ahhahahhahhaa....

JQ really very cute!!

OK!

Ok, don't know why, i will say OK a lot with JQ, i meant in my conversation with him ;p so, of course, JQ learnt, and he presented this 'OK', in a very cute way...

Oh, when i say 'OK' to JQ? Hmm...for example, he wanted to eat/play something, and if i allowed, then i will say OK. Ok, below is an example, how JQ 'learnt':

JQ : Mama, Wo Men Qu Jusco Diu Ball-Ball! (Mama, let's go to Jusco to play ball).
Before i responsed to him, JQ already helped me to reply:
JQ : OK! Let's Go!

Pls imagine JQ cute expression when he said ok, somemore with his gan-cheong and excited voice...hahahhaha....

JQ : Mama, JQ want to eat Dang-Guo (sweet)....OK! (then he goes to look for his Dang-Guo, or wait or me to take for him)

JQ : Mama, JQ want to Watch Bee (a movie)....OK! (then he quicly sit on the sofa....)

Always, after he said OK, i felt like want to laugh, coz he is so cute with his expression, and actually 'forcing' me to agree. Of course, not everytime i will agree on him la. I will still say know if cannot.

Tell me, why my son so cute?? wahahhahahha...i know the answer, coz he is our son ;p

Yi Chi har....

Yi Chi har = one time @ last time

JQ very cute....sometime really bei-qui-ngek-sei!!!

When he was small, some time when we wanted to let him sleep (or go home etc), but he don't want coz he was playing something, then we will say Yi Chi har, means play the last time, then have to sleep.

So, when we went to playground, and time to go back, he will say Yi Chi har...hahahhahaha....

If he wanted to go play sometime, then we like not agreed, then he will say Yi Chi har (means play one time enough)....ahahahhaha....

BUT, after Yi Chi, then he will say Yi Chi again, if u don't remind him that already 'Yi Chi'....hahahahhaha

Bu yao kacau Wo!!

Bu Yao Kacau Wo = Don't disturb me!!

Can you believe the above is from JQ, a 2 year-old boy?? whahahahaha...

Yesterday night, i read story book with him. Then, i passed him a book, and asked him to read. Then he suddenly pop out: Bu Yao Kacau Wo, Wo Yao Kan Shu (i want to read book). I straight away feel like laughing, but i cannot. I said: Ok, JQ read book, Mama also read book.

Wahahahhaha....

He actually learned from me ;p Coz sometimes, when i read book, he will kacau me, so i will ask him not to kacau Mama, mama want to read book ;p

So, don't say something that will pollute your kid, they learned!! ;0]

What is your name?

Below my conversation with JQ....akakkakakkaka....really 'ngek-sei'.... ;p

Mama : What is your name?
JQ : TJQ Huai-Dan (Huai-Dan = naughty boy, don't know ask him to add...)
Mama : No need to say Huai-Dan, say TJQ Gou Liao (Gou Liao = Enough). What is your name?
JQ : TJQ Gou Liao (wahahhahahha...ngek sei!!)
Mama : No, say TJQ Hao Liao (Hao Liao = OK). What is your name?
JQ : TJQ Hao Liao (wahahhahaha....vomit blood d... ;p)
Mama : Say TJQ... What is your name?
JQ : TJQ Gou... (he didn't say 'Liao', but showing his cute cute funny naughty face)

Hahahhahhaa....no wonder he called himself TJQ Huai-Dan...really naughty....coz he purposely 1. He knows i will 'play' with him if he said so...

Oh, the above conversation, repeated for few times, almost the same for everytime... ;p

Zai Na Ni...

Zai Na Li = Where are you

JQ lately very cute...Oops repharse coz JQ always cute ;p JQ lately has new cute act ;)

If he looking for someone, he will say : Mama, Zai Na Li....the way he said Zai Na Ni got tune 1...like singing. Sometime the 'Zai Na Ni' will be in crying tune or big question mark tune too ;p

This few weeks, when he reached my mum house, the first thing he said is Wa-Ma, Zai Na Li? (Grandma, where are you?). So cute...

If he can't find me or his dad, he will ask : Mama/Papa, Zai Na Li? Normally, i will reply him, Zai Zhe Li (Here) :)

So cute.... ;)

JQ loves to sing

JQ loves to sing, especially those English Classic Song, for example, Smoke Gets In Your Eyes, The End of the World, Love You More Than I Can Say.....hehe, i don't really know the song name ;p

He normally listen those song in my father-in-law car. So, when he inside the car, he will say Ye-Ye, Kai Music (Grandpa, on music). Then he will sing together. Eh, i tell you, he not simply sing, he really knows the lyrics!! Of course, he cannot sing accurately la, hei, he just 2 years old ler... ;p

Oh, lately, he loves Jacky Cheong's song. He loves to sing the 'Oi Si Wing Hang" (Cantonese, means Love is forever). He heard this song in Kelvin's car. So, when he in his father's car, he will say : Ding Uncle Chang-Ge (means he wants to listen Uncle sing the song. No one teach him, but he sendiri said Uncle...hahahhahaha...). He follow 'uncle' sing the song, after he heard the song for 2-3 times.

Oh, now, he can accept those modern song, he even knows how to sing a very hot English song, but i suddenly cannot recall the name...

Also, he loves so see (not really can sing) the MTV of Nobody from Wonder Girl. If you show him the Nobody, Nobody but You dancing step, he will laugh happily... :) Oh, his dad loves to open this song MTV to JQ thru YouTube ;)

Don't know next time JQ will be singer or not ler?? ;p i think i will not stop him, if he wants to be singer, as long as he happy and no regret, he can do what ever he likes :)

JQ likes to play with Jie Jie

When JQ in my mum house, usually when about 6pm, my mum will bring him in front of my mum house, as most of the neighbour kids will come out to play.

The neighbour in front of my mum house is indian, and the next door is chinese. So, normally those kids will play together.

JQ likes to play with the two Chinese Jie-Jie next door. He will keep on saying Jie-Jie, Jie Jie, Yi-Qi Wan (Sister, play together). Unfortunately, the Jie Jie not really like to play with JQ, coz JQ still small mah. So normally, the Jie Jie will play awhile with JQ only, then they will play with the Indian neighbour kids.

JQ also play with the Indian boy n girl, but he obviously prefer to play with Jie Jie...ok, this shows that my son loves chinese girl ;p

And, what they play? Usually play ball-ball lor ;p And, i really like to see JQ running, coz he really cute when he run. Hmmm, i should take his video one day... :)

so good...

Lately, JQ learned new phrase: so good...

Last two days, JQ stayed with my mum during day time, as my in-law when out station, so my mum helped to take care JQ when i went to work.

JQ likes to go my mum house to play. And, he likes to go to the bocony in my mum room, coz he then can 'help' my mum to water the plant. Ok, i should say 'play' water, not help ;p

So, when my mum brought him to the bocony, he suddenly said : So Good... The way he said really cute, pls imagine that he so excited, and then said so good with his mouth in du-du shape ;p

And, when my mum brought him to the small garden behind my mum house, he also said : So Good....

Sigh, why my son so cute?? akkakkakakka...

Timid Boy....

JQ is timid boy... ;p

If we suddenly frightened him, for example, we scream as Tiger, or scared him etc, he will runaway in nervous. And, his whole body language showed that he very takut!! Pls imagine this.... whahahhahahha

then if he on staircase, then we scared him, he will try to walk down/up. If walked down, as he takut jatuh also, but he wanted to be fast, so the way he walked down will be very funny....nervous + careful coz takut jatuh also....If he walked up, then he will 'try' to walk fast, but cannot, so he very cute too....wakakakkakka...

This i difficult to take video to record down, coz i am the one who frighthen him....whahahaha....or, i will have to take care of him if anyone want to scare him, else afraid he really fal down, coz he will be very gan-jeong....

JQ really cute!

But have to let him learn to be brave la, he is boy mah.... but i know he will be brave and take care of Mama one day, he sure will :)

JQ vs Dinosaur

JQ loves dinosaur a lot! If you still remember, i told you we brought him to Ocean Park and he like to play the Did-Did (sound) int he How to Train Your Dragon. And, whenever he looked at the photo that we taken with Dinosaur, he will said Did-Did, and made his Dinosaur post and action: Wau.....(Dinosaur sound)

Last few months, i went to learn Barney cupcake. When i back from the class, and show the Barney cupcake to JQ, he so excited! Kept on saying he wanted to see the Barney.

Then, when he saw me taking photo for my Barney, he also said he wanted to Pai-Zhao (take photo). So, i took his photo with Barney. Before you see JQ photo, i think you can imagine JQ cute face ;p whahhahhhaa....

When we in Taiwan....

Wau, long time no post, have to add oil now... :)

Ok, i did post a post which is before we went to Taiwan, now to tell you, when we in Taiwan, what happened to JQ ....

In the morning, before we left to airport, JQ still sleeping, so i went to say goodbye to him softly, and of course with my lovely kiss.

When we in Taiwan, Kelvin parents and sister helped to take care of JQ. Kelvin's sister said JQ didn't have stamina to eat, like missing us (after that we found out that he might be tooth coming out, so no stamina to eat). Also, no mood in everything.

At night, when he slept, he maybe dream of us, so, he shouted in the midnight, calling Mama mama....pity boy! We actually did call back, but as we afraid he will lao-gai, so we did not ask him to listen to phone.

My parents did visit him, and brought him to Jusco's playground. When my mum asked him still want Papa and Mama or not, he said don't want. Later, when my mum asked him again, he didn't want to layan my mum d.... ;p

When we back to Malaysia, JQ did came to airport together with my parents in law. When he saw me from the inside of car, he pointed at me, and said Mama, smile happily. Then he let me carried him. Of course i was happy to hug and carry JQ that time :) Luckily, the 'Redang effect' did not happen for this time. You know why? I think because i did say goodbye to JQ before i left... :)

Bu Jian Liao oh...

Bu Jian Liao = something missing/loss/hilang

Whenever we ask JQ to take something, and he cannot see in front of him, then he will say : Bu Jian Liao oh. His hand somemore will show the 'Boh' (means no or no more) post. He so lazy to find them!

For example, when we said : JQ, where is your got-got (water)?; JQ, where is your car-car? etc, he will say Bu Jian Liao oh, without taking any initiative to look around! But if we asked him to find them, and if he not doing anything (eg, he not watching TV, not playing his toys) then he will go to look for it.

If we ask him something that he like, and he did not see them, then he will cry 'artificially' ;p Eg: JQ, where is your bei-bei (blanket)? JQ, where is your book-book? Then, he will cry 'artificially' then say Bu-Jian-Liao oh. Some times, tear also can come out. Actually i think i can train JQ to tear out in 5 seconds... he really talented in this! Wahahahhahaha....

Sometimes, when we point the things then asked him to go and take, he will push our arm and said Mama, Qu Na (Mama, go to take)....wah, like that also can!!

But sometimes, he also hardworking la, he will go and take when we asked him to do so :)

Ok, end of story :)

Dang-Guo!!

Dang-Guo means sweet. Actually correct pronouciation is Tang-Guo, but JQ did not pronouce correctly.

Yesterday, JQ got flu, so we brought him to the clinic again. After seeing doctor, he went down (i let him sat on my leg when seeing doctor) and went to play the toys in the doctor room. So, i asked him to come to say bye bye with doctor. Then when he came, he pointed on doctor table, and shouted loudly : Dang-Guo!

Hahahhahhaa.....the doctor also laugh coz JQ really funny!

Then, doctor gave him two sweet, JQ so happy. But as i seldom let JQ eat sweet, so i don't let him eat, although he kept on asking me to Kai ah (open).

Then, inside the car, i put his sweet in my palm and closed, then i asked him which hand got sweet. You know what? i let him guess for i think more than 30times, ALL he guess WRONGLY!! Hahahaha....normally he will guess correctly, but yesterday don't know why he so blur...or, maybe my skill improved, coz even Kelvin guess wrongly for few times ;p

Actually, whenever JQ sick, we will bring him to clinic in Selayang (JQ see this doctor since born). So, whenever we passby the clinic (he can recognise even inside the car), he will say Zao Doctor (look for Doctor) or Mai Yao Shui (buy medicine), coz he like to play in the clinic :) then the previous visit (before yesterday), he saw a bottle of sweet on doctor's table, so he said softly (like discover something, but pai-seh to tell, so say softly) : YOh, Dang-Guo. Then, the doctor gave him sweet for the first time :)

Oh, got one more Dang-Guo story. We quite frequent to go breakfast at a chinese shop in Selayang. The Goh-Goh (brother) there like to give kids sweet when the parents pay for the bill. So, he always gave JQ sweet. So, whenever we go there, JQ will say Dang-Guo when we reach there. Luckily, he will not request from the Goh-Goh, else, pai-seh lor... ;p

hahahhahha....end of Dang-Gua story ;p

Before JQ learn how to crawl

Ok, this is one of the video that i like :)

JQ started to learn crawl when he was about 10months. Quite late? Hehe, don't forget my JQ in huge size... ;p

Before JQ knew how to crawl, he learned how to sit back from the crawling position....really amazing...pls see the video, how he moved backward then sit...and, pls look at his expression, he always look cool when he was small....now he not that cool d, like to smile now... :)



this video still cannot show the sai-lei of JQ, sometime, when he sit up, his both leg actually in Yat-Zi-Ma (cantonese)....

we going to taiwan...

ok, Kelvin n I going to Taiwan together with JQ's Kai Ma...this time, JQ will not join us again...

Actually we bought air ticket for him, but as the weather in Taiwan super hot, and all relatives think that not suitable to bring JQ, also, got people frighthen me that maybe have Typhoon, i lagi tak berani bring JQ to Taiwan....

So, as previous, i have to discuss with JQ to get his approval... ;p hehe, sound like he is my boss, actually he is....just he never pay me, but i have to pay him...huh... ;p

Below my conversation with JQ:-

Mama: Papa and Mama go Taiwan Lui-Xing (travel), JQ stay together with Grandma and Grandpa ok or not.

JQ: Mai ah, JQ Yao Qu Lui Xing, Kan Mickey ah (no, JQ want to go travel, to see Mickey)

Mama: we not going to Hong Kong, we go Taiwan. Taiwan no Mickey.

JQ: Qu Zao Gong ah (go to look for grandpa - means look for my dad)

Mama: we not going to Hong Kong, so no Mickey, and cannot look for Gong. Taiwan very hot, JQ won't like it. JQ stay at home with Grandpa and Grandma, ok?

JQ: Mai ah.

Mama: JQ good boy, then mama buy pretty cloth for you from Taiwan, and bring you to Jusco playground

JQ: Yao ah, Diu ball-ball (i want, throw ball).

Mama: Ok, JQ good boy then mama bring you to throw ball.

JQ: Yao ah

Mama : Then, Papa and Mama can go Taiwan or not? Just 1 week

JQ: Mai ah. JQ Yao Qu Lui Xing, Kan Mickey ah (repeated from the beginning again....)

Hahahhahaha....

till now, JQ still not giving us approval yet. But i really don't want to bring him to Taiwan, too hot, i afraid he will sick. And, this time, the trip not a just Kelvin and I, and not just few days (we go Taiwan for 1 week), so will be not convenient if we bring JQ too...

JQ, maybe till the end, you still not giving us greenlight, but still we will have to leave you at home unwillingly....this is for your own good....next time, Mama will consider about the weather....Mama will miss u....

Wo Yao, Wo Yao...

Wo Yao = I want....

Lately, JQ learned the above. Everytime, he wanted something, he will said Wo Yao, Wo Yao (normally he will say Ni Yao = you want, so i have to correct him...). When he said Wo Yao, Wo Yao, he will actually stomp his leg, pretend to lao-gai....hahhaha....so cute!! This have to thank his Mama, coz last time, when i wanted JQ to share some thing with me, sometimes, i will act like that ;p

I tell you, really cute la, when he stomp....huh...he will jump a bit, stomp, then say Wo-Yao, Wo Yao. But you won't feel any lao-gai from him....but obviously, he wanted to act lao-gai....hahhahahhah.....don't understand ah?? then just leave it la ;p

Kelvin is sick

Ya, Kelvin sick since Sunday night....then, what this related to JQ?? :)

Yesterday, Kelvin still sick, so he rest in the room. Later, when almost 10pm, i brought JQ went to the room to prepare him to sleep. Once he reached our room, he climbed up to bed, as we wanted to play the ipod again. I told JQ that Papa Sheng Bing oh (Papa sick), then JQ repeated my sentence : Papa Sheng Bing oh, with additional: Wan Game ah (means he wanted to play ipod)....hahahhaha

However, we told him that no ipod, coz Kelvin left at our Selayang house (we stayed SPK yesterday). Then, JQ changed plan la, he wanted to go down the bed to take his poker card. Before he went down, i asked him to go sayang his sick Papa.

JQ like very gan-jeong to take his poker, but i asked him to sayang his dad, so he turned back, climb to his dad in rush, and you know how he sayang his dad?? Maybe he so gan-jeong (on the poker, not his dad ;p), so he actually sayang his dad by 'slap' his dad face for two times, while he saying 'sayang, sayang'.....hahaha....then, after he 'slap', he quickly went down the bed to take his poker cards...not sincere sayang at all....

I did put a wet towel on Kelvin forehead to reduce his temperature. You know what? Kelvin fever til 39.1 degree Celcius. I told Kelvin that no wonder JQ fever also with so high temperature, coz JQ same as Kelvin too! Hahaha....

ok ok, back to topic...later, i removed the wet towel from Kelvin, coz the towel already hot. Once i removed, JQ said Papa Hao Liao oh (means Papa no more sick)....hahahha...

Later, i asked JQ to say Papa Jia You (papa add oil), then JQ said so to his dad la, with the Jia You post as well...so cute...

I think JQ still not realy understand the meaning of Sheng Bing, else he will sure sayang his dad :) Papa, Get Well Soon lor... :)

ipod again....

hehe, this is not about how good JQ play ipod la ;p

Actually i also like to play the Traffic Rush. So, i will ask JQ to play it take turn with me, means each of us play one time.

So, every time after he played, and if i am around, he will pass the ipod to me, and said: Dao Mama Liao (means Mama turn to play). Really good boy! Not only ipod la, like when i played toy with him, we will take turn to play too.

I only have one son mah, so must teach him sharing :) So, i will try to ask him share some thing with others, like take turn to play in playground, share his toys with others children come to our house, etc :) i think JQ quite sharing. But sometimes, some thing that he really like to play or eat, he will not let go easily ;p but still after you talk nice to him, he will share with you. Really Good Boy!

Oh, tumbang topic again ;p now, almost every night, JQ wants to play the ipod, so he will say : 10 Dian Liao Oh (10 O'clock, means time to go to room to prepare for sleep), then he will say Mama, Wan Game ah (play ipod). Then when we reach the room, he will climb up to bed (or sometimes asked me to put him on the bed), then he will lay on the Bedside, wait me to pass the ipod to him, and start the Deng Apple Xian, that i mentioned in previous page....ahahahahha....sometimes, if we don't want to let him play (told him no battery or Papa din bring home), he will cry a while (which is not real cry), then he will read book or look for others to play awhile before he brush his teeth and sleep :)

Ok, then end...

JQ and ipod

Ok, first of all, i will have to say that i don't the ipod is really ipod....it is Apple ipod, but no function as handphone....so, i guess u all know what is it? Or, it is called itouch? hmm...like got such thing right?? ;p

ok, back to the topic, and i will just assume as it is ipod ;p

You know what? JQ knows how to play ipod! Those who have ipod, you know that after you press the On button, the screen will show a 'apple'. You know what JQ will say : Deng Apple Xian (wait for the Apple first, means let it load first la)! Sometimes he will even show his 'Deng' post (his hand will show the Deng post).

After the 'apple' gone, it will show a screen, where you will need to 'slide to the right', before you can start to use the ipod. You know what, JQ knows how to 'slide' it ater he saw his dad to that for ONE times, when he was about 1.5 years old!!Amazing man! Initially, we thaught that just coincidence, but he can repeat it without fail! Huh, so i told Kelvin that JQ is IT boy...

This is still not yet the most amazing part! I just give an example here...JQ likes to play the Traffic Rush, one of the games in ipod, where, there are a lot of cars in the big cross junction, where you will need to control those cars to cross the load, so that they will not bang...Again, after seeing his dad played for one time, he knows how to play this games!

The most amazing part is: JQ knows how to drag around the ipod, to find out this Traffic Rush game, then he know which is the 'start' key! Then after Game Over, he knows which part to touch, so that he can continue for second games!! Of course, this not see one time, then he knows la. Initially, after Game Ove, he will pass it to me or his dad, and said Mama/Papa, An ah (press)....

You thaught this is coincidence, or because he saw us to the same a lot of time?? I tell you, ater he knows how to press, whenever new games he played, he can remember which where is the game, how to press, how to play and how to continue! JQ Li-Hai oh!! Oh ya hor, he like never praise himself on this ipod games.... ;p maybe he think that this is too easy?? Gosh...

Hmm...don't know next time in school, he will be so fast learning or not :)

JQ Sa-Sa

Sa-Sa = act silly(in cantonese is Sor)

JQ very funny. Sometimes, he will do something very 'silly', but funny, for example, he will suddenly laugh very laugh and his face will have those funny expressions, while we playing something, where we all don't understand what made him laugh so happily...then i will say : JQ Sa-Sa...

Yesterday, we played 'throw the ball'. I put a basketball in the center of living room, then he used the soft blocked to throw onto it. He very enjoy with this games, and we repeated almost 10 times (10 times x more than 20 soft blocks....huh)! Then, when we playing, he suddenly will laugh loudly with his funny face, then he himself said : Mama, JQ Sa-Sa! Hahahhahhaha....so funny la....

oh, tumpang in this topic la...;p yesterday, after i lazy with the 'throw the ball' game, then i asked JQ to lay down on the floor, then i put the soft blocks on his tummy and stacked high, and asked JQ to hold them so that they will not fall. JQ so happy, and he will purposely made them floor so that those soft blocks will drop on to his face, then he laugh happily, and kept on saying : Hai Yao ah (still want). He really super cute :)

after that, i told him i also wanted to play, so i laid down and asked him to put the soft blocks on my tummy. He just put two, then stop, then say : Dao JQ Liao(means JQ turn to play)....hahahhahaha....

JQ cannot 'move' ...

What happened to JQ?? Why cannot move?? When JQ was small, about 1 year old, he very funny. If you let him lay down on the floor, he will not move at all! He actually knew how to turn his body (on bed or any place that is soft), but he afraid of pain (when u sleep on the floor, if u move, you will pain), so if you put him on the floor, then he will not move! He will cry for help! So, if he naughty, then this is how we purnish him! Of course, sometimes, i purposely do so ;p Coz he really funny la! But i think about 14months, he no more like this. So, cannot punish him like this anymore ;p

Enjoy the movie! Pls look at JQ face expression, which is very funny ;p

JQ learn how to speak....

JQ started to learn how to speak about 10months old...

in the video, he kept on ba-ba-ba, his mouth very cute ;p

oh, that time, we recorded the video using camera, and we didn't know that we cannot take video vertically, so end up, we cannot make the video to horizontal, therefore, pls turn your head a bit la ;p hehe...

JQ in Genting

Yeah, another cute video of JQ, which taken when he was about 5months old.

The video was taken when we in First World Hotel. As the eather quite cold, so i 'wrap' JQ with his blanket. Haha...he so cute!

Then, he cannot move, and started to scream, and got one part, he like want to bite me coz cannot move....hhhahahhaha...enjoy :P

Jiu-Ming ah = HELP!!!

Jiu-Ming ah!

Yes, JQ knows how to say Jiu Ming!! Who taught him? His good Mama ;p

Hehe, don't know why, i think little kids say Jiu-Ming is very cute, and also very important, if got bad man/woman want to hurt them.

I trained JQ said Jiu-Ming before he 1 year old. And, he knew how to say Jiu-Ming when he about 15months. Oh, interested how i trained JQ?? Hehe...

When JQ small, i like to play with him before he slept, actualy now also la. Then, i will catch his hands or legs, and don't let him move. Then, he will say Mai Ah, so i will correct him to say Jiu Ming! Of course initially he didn't know how to say la ;p

Slowly, he learned! And, he really Green Out From Blue, he really fully utilise this Jiu-Ming....he not only say Jiu Ming when we catch his hands/legs, but whenever we do something that against his will, he will say Jiu-Ming....this really make us laugh!

For example, if we gu-ci him, he will say Jiu Ming ah, if we hold his toys and don't want to let go, he will say Jiu-Mingah, if we hug him strong and don't let him leave, he will also say Jiu-Ming ah. And, the way he say Jiu-Ming, not just say ler, his expression hor, really like very 'suffer'.....aakkakkkakakkaka....

sometimes, i will purposely 'play' him, so that he will say Jiu-Ming, coz he is super cute!!! whahahhahahha....

We went to Redang...

My company trip for this year is Redang. Kelvin and i went Redang together with my colleagues. Supposingly, we want to bring JQ along, but my mother and my parents-in-law not agreed, so end up just Kelvin and i...of course, i also think that Redang trip not suitable for a 2-year-old boy...

This is a 'sad' story...pls prepare tissue when u wanted to read this...maybe is a sad story for a sad mother like me la....

I started to tell JQ that Kelvin n i will be away for few days for Lui-Sing (trip) and Zuo-Gong (work), and asked him OK or not. Those read by old post, you will know that if JQ said No, then if we do it, he will be angry n will lao-gai. So, since he said no, i will have to continue to pursuade him, till he said ok...

Few days before our trip, JQ finally said Ok, then he said : Ahhh, Mai Ah (means he will not 'Ahhhh' or scream or lao-gain when we not around:) So, i told JQ that he was a good boy.

On 1/7, Kelvin called me and said when i reached home, pls call his father, so that his father will bring JQ to go out, so that JQ will not see usleaving, then he will not cry. I knew that this arrangement was not good, but i did not object, since Kelvin already agreed, and my in-law who helped me to take care JQ wanted to do so. This is a big fault!

I knew that JQ will not cry even he saw us, and i felt that JQ wanted to say goodbye to us, same as me, i would like to say goodbye to JQ before we went to Redang....end up, we really did not say Goodbye to JQ... :(

When we in Redang, JQ really very good boy, he really did not 'Ahhhh' (means he did not lao-gai). But when during sleeping time, he did look for us, so my in-law told him that we went to work, so he was ok, but he looks a bit sad la. And, in the midnight, he will call Papa and Mama in his dream....he missing us....pity boy!

Oh, when we in Redang, Kelvin's sister take care of JQ at night. And, no need to say, i missed JQ a lot when we in the Redang trip. I kept telling Kelvin that if JQ is here, he will do this do that....JQ will sure happy!

Then yesterday night, we reached home late. We reached about 11pm. JQ already went upstairs. He did not sleep, and my in-law said he got lao-gai a bit, as someone told him that we coming back, so he wanted to wait for us.

Then, huh, feel like 1 2 cry now...i ran up to my room to see my lovely JQ. Then, we met half way, as my sister-in-law brought JQ down. When JQ saw me, i knew that he was surprised and happy, then he let me carry him. BUT, then, he asked my sis-in-law to carry him, he didn't want me to carry him! I knew he angry on me, coz i did not say goodbye to him when we went to Redang. You know what, he didn't want to look at me too...my heart so pain then! My tear almost came out at that moment!

I can feel that he actually missed me, but he also angry on me, so he didn't want to look at me and didn't want to let me carry him. After i comfort him, and said sorry to him, then only he let me carry him, but i still feel that he still angry on me...

Then, i let him read book, talked with him, played with him, apologized with him again, then slowly, he is ok, and i know he forgive us. Then, we asked him to give us big hug, and he gave us a very big hug...

At night, i still let him slept by his own, and i tap him to sleep. He cannot sleep but he did not make noise and look at me quietly, like afraid we will leave again... After i told him that we will not leave, and will sleep together with him, then only he slept, and his hand put on my face to ensure that i will not leave...my heart so pain then....my son still so small, but he already so lovly, anyhow, we hurt his heart....

In the midnight, he suddenly called Mama. I woke up and checked on him, then i told him that Mama is here. Then he put his little palm on my face, and continue to sleep...i really blame myself that time...

I told myself that i will never leave JQ without saying goodbye to him!! Unless very very special case that i cannot think of now....

JQ, Mama very sorry to you! Please forgive us, and this will not happen again...Now, i worried on our Taiwan trip. But i know the trip really not suitable to JQ, i will talk to JQ next week, to prepare him...or, i should really consider to bring JQ along??

JQ n Bye-Bye fever...

Whenever JQ had fever, we will put a Bye-Bye fever to help him to reduce temperature...But, JQ doesn't like it...if you still remember, JQ doesn't like ice-cream, so he doesn't like the cool bye-bye fever too :)

When we wanted to put on his forehead, he sure said Mai ah, unless we 'tipu' him, should say 'pujuk' la, that Shuang-Shuang wuh (Syiok), then only he will let us put unwillingly...

When he still very small, below 1 year old, he will cry if we put on it. But we still put la, coz he didn't want to let us put on wet towel, so had to put bye-bye fever la.

The photo taken in Pyramid. We went to shopping, then suddenly JQ like have light fever, so we buy and put on it....u see? His face so not happy... ;p

Hope no need to help JQ put on this anymore....and really say Bye Bye to Bye-Bye fever....huh....

When we were in USA....

Of course, JQ did not follow us to New York...Kelvin and i went to New York last year, as i went there for a conference and Kelvin just accompanied me, as he can save hotel cost for this trip...that time, JQ only 1.5years old...

Of course, i super missed my JQ when i in New York. I started to miss him when i took Limosine to airport...Everyday, i told Kelvin that i missed JQ...of course Kelvin also missed our lovely son...

Sometimes, when i missed JQ, i in sad and bad mood, i don't feel like want to talk to Kelvin...Kelvin dare not disturb me then...

Luckily, i got borrowed my sister mini laptop. So we MSN webcam with JQ on the third day. I so excited to see JQ on-line! JQ so surprised when he saw us thru computer. But we cannot hear his voice, coz the speaker got problem. But i know he saying Papa and Mama... :) When we back, my in-law said JQ happy when saw us thru computer, but when we offline, he become no mood...pity boy! Mummy also pity...

I cannot remember who bring us home, Limosine or my in-law, i just know that i told Kelvin that cannot fight with me to hug JQ! ;p Then, once i saw JQ, i terus hug JQ tight-tight and kissed him non-stop, same as him, gave me a big hug, and kept calling me Mama and touch my face, like afraid this is not real. Then i let Kelvin hug him, JQ didn't want, of course, end up got la.

And, JQ becomes Kolar Bear since then....where ever i go, he will follow, else he will cry. I went to toilet also he will cry, i know he scared i will away from him again. Pity Boy....can you imagine how sad he was when i am not around?? Now i think back, i also feel like want to cry...

The most sad case was...after i back from US for less than 1 week, my in-law suddenly brought JQ to Johor when i was working! That time i still not 'finished' missing my JQ, but they suddenly 'take' JQ away from me! Honestly, i really angry and sad that time! I am JQ mother, don't you think you should get my permission first? Ya, Kelvin got called me and said his mother want to bring JQ to Johor, so i asked Kelvin no need coz my mum can take care JQ. But end up, they bring without telling me officially...so sad and angry!!

That day, after i went back home, i don't want to talk to Kelvin. I know this was not Kelvin problem, but i can't stop myself to blame him! I told Kelvin that i know this is not his problem, but my mood really no good, i asked him no need to bother me, let me release myself. My tear came out non-stop that night, i cried till i fall asleep. My tear almost come out when i wrote this....

The next day, i dropped an email to Kelvin, told him how i feel, else i know i will burst...my tear also non-stop when i typed email to Kelvin...after that i become much better.

Then, almost every night, we got MSN or 3G JQ to chat with him. He so excited when he saw us. My in-law told us that after MSN, JQ became moody, lao-gai, and no stamina...so, after few days, we did not MSN or 3G JQ so frequent...Pity JQ and Pity Mama....

Then, till another weekend (JQ went there about 10days), then we went to Johor to bring back JQ. My heart like wanted to fly to Johor...When we reached there, almost 3am,coz traffic jam. Then, the first thing i did is rush to the room and kissed my JQ! JQ like know is me, he opened his eyes then looked at me like can't believe. Then he closed his eyes. He must be thinking that he was dreaming..haha...The next morning, when he woke up, he saw me slept next to him, he so happy and called me Mama! Oh, so sweet....

Since that day, JQ became super kolar bear...i must made sure myself around, when his eyes opened, else he will cry for Mama. Then, most difficult part was when i went to work....first few days, he really cried loudly, but slowly, become better...

Since then, we love each other more....and, Kelvin knows i will miss JQ, so wherever we go, we will bring JQ along....but, we are not bringing JQ to Redang and Taiwan trip, coz not suitable for JQ....anyway, i think i will be ok, although i will still miss my JQ...

JQ, Mama Love U!!

Bear Bear Jelly Cake....

Deng-Deng-Deng-Deng-Deng!! The above is the Jellycake that i made for JQ for his birthday party. Nah, not only his Ling Tze Kai-Ma know how to make cake, i also know!!! Wahahahhaha....like got the 'vinegar' smell hor?? Kkakakakakakaka....of course la, i am not talent like Ling Tze Kai-Ma la, the cake she made is "AMAZING"!!! My jellycake looks 'terrible' at the eyes coz some technical problem. Initially, the bear got tear (coz color came out from the eyes), luckily, i manage to save it, but then caused it become like got dark circle....like Panda Bear... ;p whahahhahha....

Ok, ok, this blog is not to advertise cake.... ;p

When i made the jellycake, JQ was so kacau....oh, i purposely took one day leave to made the jellycake, coz on JQ birthday, i got class to attend. Then i went to my mum house to made it, as got more ga-chang (apparatus). And, i brought JQ along, so that my in-law can rest. Mana tau, my mum suddenly not free, coz her friend needed her help, so i will have to take care JQ and made Jellycake...

In order not to let JQ kacau me, i only started when he slept. Mana tau, he slept only 1hour+...i saja baru siap preparation and started a bit, he sudah bangun!! Oh, luckily Kelvin came during lunch hour, coz i forgot to bring some ingredient, so Kelvin got help to take care JQ a while, before he went to work...

So, we let him watched Lion Dance VCD (he love to watch Lion Dance, that day we repeated the VCD for 3times, can fight with Bee Movie....). But he watched a while, then he came kacau me, said Mama, Bao Ba ah. Kan Bear-Bear Xiong ah! (Mama carry me, see Bear-Bear).

Then, i have to carry him, else he will not leave....then, i will bring him back to living hall. This 'process' repeated few times....till finished ;p

Then, what was his expression when he saw bear-bear xiong?? i think you know the answer... :) yes, he said : Wah, Bear-Bear Xiong oh! Mei-Mei oh (wah, bear-bear, pretty oh).

When the jellycake was done, and remove from the container, JQ was so happy, and even clapped his hand and laugh!! SO cute!!

Then, i put the jellycake in the fridge, he kept on asking me to open the fridge to let him watch the bear-bear-xiong. He will bring me to the fridge, then said, Mama Kai ah, Yao Kan ah (Mama open, want to see ah)....whahhahhaha....

Then, during his birthday party, he so happy to see his bear-bear xiong! Oh, one thing, he like to blow candles too. Then, we cut the jellycake to eat, he said Boh?? (no more) Luckily, he not crying la ;p

Then, my brother came (late). He brought my brother to see his Bear-Bear jellycake...so cute!!

Next year, what cake to make ler?? ;p

Zhe-Li/Na-Li and Wo/Ni

Zhe Li = here
Na Li = there
Wo = I
Ni = You

JQ cannot differentiate the above yet, i think quite normal for kids la...;)

As i said, JQ normally call himself JQ, seldom used I. But lately, i teach him say I. But he always confuse the Wo and Ni. For example, when he want to eat apple, he will say : Ni Yao (you want). Then i will correct him, then only he will say Wo Yao.

Then for Zhe Li and Na Li...when he play ball, he will instruct us where to stand. Then, he will mix up this Zhe Li and Na Li. He will say Zhan Zhe Li (stand here), so we will go stand near him lor, but he will push us away to another place, so i have to correct him : Na Li...

Most funny was yesterday night. JQ suddenly woke up in he midnight, should be dreaming la, so, i gave him some water, and tap him so that he will sleep. Then, he kept on saying Mama, Zhe Li Zhe Li. I thaught he asked me to sleep on his bed, so i told him : No, Mama want to sleep Mama bed. But still he kept on said Mama Zhe Li Zhe Li, of course i still say No la.

Then, he pushed my hand away, and said Mama Zou Kai ah(Mama, go away)! So, i just go away, then JQ terus tidur.... Wahahhahhaa....then only i realised that he actually wanted to say Mama Na Li (means asked me to go back to my bed), but he said wrongly, but i did not think of that. Coz normally, he loves me to tap him to sleep.....

Whahahhahha....

JQ in Formula 1

Ok, have to write back old story of JQ :)

This should be the 2nd time JQ frighten me...First time was when he was about 4months plus, he had very high fever. This 2nd time, not because fever, but he knocked his head when 'driving' his 'Formula 1' (Baby Walker...) when he was 6months old

That time, i alone at home with JQ, as Kelvin went to be Hing-Dai of a friend. I forget what is the reason, i let JQ in his walker, then i went to Kitchen, should be to bil water.

Then, suddenly, JQ cried very loud, i quickly went out to check what happened! I saw his head 'bengkak', so i know his knocked his head, but i cannot figure out how his knock his head while he was in his walker?? Mystery till now...

That time i really being frightened! I so nervous, afraid anything happened to JQ, as he just 6months old, his head still fragile! My tear came outnon-stop! Then JQ kept crying! And he cry so loud! So, i called my mum, see what can i do. My voice really 'shaking'. Then my mum asked me to call my in-law. Now i cannot recall what i doing then! Just know that i tried to comfort JQ, so that he won't cry.

I tried everything, water, toy, singetc. Later, i gave him a book, then he slowly stop crying, and read his book. Luckily he loves book....can you see him smiling when he read the book?



Then, my in-law came, and we went to my in-law house. After JQ calm down, I did call Kelvin, but he didn't pick up, but later he called me back, as that time JQ no more crying, and my in-law was there, so i just told Kelvin that JQ knocked his head but no need to worry, anyhow, still he rushed back to see his lovely son...

The below photo is we helped JQ to apply some soothing oil. Pity Boy...

But you see? His leg opened so big! Don't know why, since he small, he like to open his leg big big. Even we help him to 'close' his leg, he will open big big again....very cute 1. I will post video next time :)

Jia Qing Li-Hai @ Jia-Qing Pan-Lai

Li-Hai in mandarin means very Superb (or in cantonese is Keng). And, Pan-Lai, is actually Hokkien (or Malay- Pandai) means Clever.

JQ very cute....i mentioned this in almost every post ;p

Ok, back to the topic....JQ will praise himself, when he doing something that he think himself is Li-Hai or Pan-Lai. We will say : JQ Li-Hai or JQ Pan-Lai....so cuteeeeee....

For example, if he managed to stack the soft block to very high, then he will clap his hands then run to me and say JQ Li-Hai.

If he sings a song, then he will also tell me happily that JQ Pan-Lai. A lot la, most of the time, if he does some thing for the very first time, and he success, he will say JQ Li-Hai or JQ Pan-Lai....most of the time, he will make us laugh loudly...and, normally, i will agree with him, and say Yes, JQ Li-Hai! :)

Why JQ will say so? Coz when he is still small (actually now also like that), when JQ doing some thing that i think i should praise him, i will say JQ Li-Hai or JQ Pan-Lai, so he learned from it :)

Few days ago, one funny example happened. That morning, i wanted to let JQ take bath after he woke up. So, i removed his long pants, then my handphone rang. So, i just left him in front the bath room, and i answered my call. Then, suddenly, JQ ran out and shouted loudly and like very gan-jeong, then he said JQ Li-Hai oh! I saw him so gan-jeong to run to me, i also a bit afraid of what happened to him...

We wonder why he said he Li-Hai, then i noticed that he removed the diaper that he wearing by himself! So, he so excited and told us he is Li-Hai! Wahahahhahahha....

My son, My JQ is always Li-Hai!!!

JQ and games....

At first, don't know what title to put...suddenly think of it, good good good... ;p

Actually i think this is a complicated topic ;p coz JQ has different character during games time, sometimes polite, sometime sharing, sometime selfish etc....i just give few example that i can remember la :)

Actually most of the time JQ is not selfish when playing. Maybe because this is his character, or maybe is because we told him that must share with others since small. Normally, when he playing some thing, and you ask him to let you play, he will give you, if you ask him softly. Anyhow, if it is new games, then sorry, he will not. He will play till he satisfy, then only you can borrow from him. However, if he doesn't know how to play, he will ask for yor help, and don't mind to play together with you.

And, i actually quite proud on JQ when he playing in playgroud, and there are others kid around :) why? If someone is playing some toy/game that JQ wishes to play, he will not go and grab it from others. He will wait till the person finish then only he will go and play. Good Boy! And, if he is playing, someone come and grab his thing, he will not cry. Then what will be his reaction?? Sometime he will say 'Oo' then look at me (very cute, he showing this to tell me someone taken his thing), so i will smile at him, say let the others play (i will tell him quietly that the he/she is naughty and JQ is good boy). Sometimes, he will be sad and look at the he/she, and sometimes will come to hug me. Anyhow, this seldom happended la, maybe because my JQ size not small too ;p

Of course, i cannot let JQ think that others can bully him too. So, sometimes, if others kid is too over, i will tell the kids cannot do this. And get back the thing to JQ, then ask them to play together. Of course, i will not just let JQ to play.

If someone comes to play together with him, he will play together with others, so far i think he never reject others. Good Boy! And, he will Q-up too, and said Pai-Dui :)

Last two weeks, Kelvin and i brought JQ to Jusco Kepong, then we played one game together. We have to throw ball to a screen, to hit the ghost, then we get point to proceed the next level. Supposingly, it should be played by JQ right? But then, Kelvin and I so excited, then we kept on throwing. JQ holding the ball, like don't know what he can do. Of course, he got throw the ball also. And, maybe he saw us so excited, he actually took the ball and pass to Kelvin to throw. Hahhahahhaha...actually JQ enjoy this games too. I think i will bring him there this weekend again :)

Most funny part was after we went home....Ok, after we played, there was another family waiting. So, we told JQ that our turn is finished, so have to let the Jie-Jie play. JQ very good boy, he said : Dao Jie-Jie Wan ah (means the Jie Jie turn to play). Then what so funny?? Coz until today, he will suddenly tell me: Ma-Ma, Dao Ji-Jie Wan ball-ball. Waahahhahahha....this means he really loves to play the game, although not really he played ;p and, he thaught that the Jie-Jie still playing till now....whahahhahha....you know how i answered for the last time he said so? I told him: Ya lor, the Jie-Jie play so long hor, till now also not yet finished....wahhahahhahah....

JQ, ok, Mama promise to bring you to play the ball-ball again. Your turn is coming :)

JQ Bu-Bu-Bu

(Photo taken during Cow's CNY. JQ bu-bu-bu happily, and i choose the most ugry photo to post..but still very cute ;p)

JQ like to play his saliva, and Bu-Bu-Bu the saliva when he was about 6-8months old.

He will Bu-Bu-Bu till his cloth also wet, and face full of saliva...if you enlarge the photo, you can actually see the saliva is driping....

Old people said, after bu-bu-bu will rain. But i think JQ bu-bu-bu not very accurate la, coz he sometimes bu-bu-bu the whole day also one drop rain pun tak ada... ;p

oh, one funny thing, when JQ bu-bu-bu, he sometimes will bu-bu-bu till he has no more 'gas'....huh, really long! And, till sometimes, his face also turned red. Of course we will stop him, but no use, he will still continue to bu...........

Then, why JQ will stop bu-bu-bu? Because of me....coz i think Bu-Bu-Bu is not so good, and dirty, so when JQ is about 7-8months, if he bu-bu till too long, i will use my fingers to 'tan' (cantonese) his lips. At first, he will cry, but then he will continue to bu. So, i will continue to 'tan' his lips. Then slowly, he stopped...

Sometimes, when i 'tan' him, he will stop bu, then look at me like he cannot believe that i will 'tan' him, and then show me his sad face, then cry...now think back, really funny. But that time, when i see his sad face, i also sakit hati, but no choice, have to stop this bad habit mah...

Actually i suppose to have the video...see if i can upload next time...

JQ eating his hand and leg...

(Hai-yo, JQ look so cute! His toes like so yummy...i also feel like want to bite ;p)

Ok, eating sound too kua-cheong la, actually is sucking or licking his hand and leg...

Actually JQ not really do this everyday, i meant he not frequent on this la, just once a while. Not like some kids, will put their hand, ok is thumb or finger, inside the mouth and suck.

JQ sometimes, will lick his toes too....but i don't feel disgusting at all, but so cute! You will know what i mean after you see the photo.

Anyhow, this two days, JQ suddenly like to put his thumb inside his mouth. Of course, i don't allow, coz too dirty. Also, last time, JQ can sleep with whatever pillow or blanket, but lately, he kept on wanting to have his bei-bei (blanket). Even Ng-Ng also want to hug on it, of course, i don't allow la. Like he just 1 year old...but i read an article, kids about 2years old, will stick to their parents most, till they can understand that their parents won't leave them...maybe this is the reason that JQ so 'stick' on me recently, and want his bei-bei....

Ok, some photo here.... :)



(JQ licking his fingers, maybe gum itchy...)



(Aiyoyo....so cute!!!)

Ai Ya, Wang-Ji-Liao ah...

Ai Ya, Wang-Ji-Liao ah is means : Aiyo, forget oh...

after i delivered JQ, i am quite forgetful...some people said this is not because of pregnant/delivery, but because we too tired to take care of baby, thus become forgetful....ok, ok, not related, stop here ;p

I quite frequent to say Ai-Ya, Wang-Ji-Liao to JQ, for example, when i forgot to take his towel, pampers, bottle, cloth to somewhere etc...

Then since last week, he suddenly spoke this sentence, when i forgot something...cannot remember what i forgot ;p aakkakakkakaka....

i told JQ, Aiya, Mama Wang-Ji-Liao oh...the he repeated my sentence ;p ahahhahahah...that time i so surprise to hear he said so. Then i think back, only i realised i actually said it quite frequent ;p

Most funny was, his Yi-Po (Kelvin eldest aunty) came to my in-law house to celebrate JQ birthday, and asked JQ to greet her. Then JQ looked at her, think awhile, then JQ said : Ai-Ya, Wang-Ji-Liao ah......whahahhahahhahha.....they all people laughed so loud (that time i not around, but i can imagine JQ cute face)! JQ forgot who is she, so he said so...means JQ really understand the meaning of this sentence ;)

And, few days ago, inside the car, i forgot to take something again. I said Ai-Ya...JQ like knew i must be forgot to bring something, even before i finished, he helped me to say Ai-Ya, Wang-Ji-Liao ah....akakkakkakaka....

Tell me, tell me, why my son so cute :)

JQ posing

This is just to put some photo of JQ... :) Actually still have others similar photo la and even nicer, but i lazy to upload, so i actually copy from facebook, which tag by others....wahahhahahhaha....



(if we asked JQ to show Ke-Ai pose, his will show this post)



(if we asked JQ to show Handsome pose, his will show this post)



(this photo taken by Kelvin, JQ really looks like model ;p so yao-ying )

Oh, i will upload photos on this post again....if i hardworking enough ;p so, u may read this post again in future for others photo :) actually still have a lot of cute pose of JQ... :) like Mei-Mei (Beautiful), Tai-Yang (Sun), Ha-Ha-Xiao (Laugh), etc...

JQ's Kai Ma...

Hmm...i think i mentioned quite a few times about JQ's Kai Ma in this blog. Even the reason of writing this blog in English, also because of JQ's Kai Ma...so, i think i should post the photo of JQ's Kai Ma....

From the below photo, you may know we all same kind...what kind? Love Kids, but also like to bully kids....wahhahahhaha....JQ's Kai Ma, don't deny on this! ;p

Oh, have to mention this....why JQ has so many Kai Ma? They all actually was my ex-housemates, partial ex-housemates and neighbours.........difficult to explain this relationship. The most important is we are best friends! So, all our kids also will have 11 Kai Ma...

JQ's Kai Ma love JQ very much. One of the reasons maybe coz JQ is the first kid in our group, but i think the most important reason is JQ is super cute!!! ;p I think no one will object on this ;p

JQ scared to cut hair....

When JQ very smaill, less than 4months, he was still ok when we brought him to cut his cair....JQ hair grow very fast....need to cut almost every months (about 4-6 weeks).

But when he was about 6months, he very scared to cut hair! He will cry very loud and non-stop! Coz we brought him to those Indian shop, so he scared the electric hair cutter (don't know how to call that..). Maybe it will touch his head, and thus he can feel the vibration so, he very scared. Poor Boy!

JQ really will cry till like this is end of the world....his tear all, fuh-yoh....so big drop and non-stop. And, we will have to hold him tight, else will hurt him...Then, just like football, we have to rest in the middle....coz JQ tired, we also tired ... ;p

Here is a photo of JQ, BEFORE cut hair....Before cut hair, he already like this, can you imagine when 'in the process'?? But hor, JQ still handsome in this crying face....whahahhahhaha....

Kelvin had to carry him when JQ cut hair, coz JQ not tall enough...



Everytime i saw this photo, i also will sakit hati, pity boy...but then, i will think that why my son so cute when he crying ;p

Actually, i suppose to have the video....should upload if i found :)

Now, as we not bringing JQ to Indian shop anymore, so he tak takut anymore.... :) of course more expensive la....but what to do??

Sleeping JQ...

(this photo super 'funny'....he continued to sleep, no matter how we 'figure' him)

When JQ sleep very deep, for example after came back from outside, how you touch him also he has no response....Even you take his hand to high position, then drop it, he also no feeling....

The below is some cute photo of sleeping JQ.... :)



(JQ slept inside the car after visited his great-grandmother during Cow's CNY...JQ was so tired)



(i think JQ had bad dream...poor boy! Not worry, mummy is here!)



(slept comfortably at my body....i like to carry/hug JQ like this...like pillow :)

JQ's nails...

JQ's nail any special? YES! His nails are super sharp and hard...just like his father! I always complant this to Kelvin!

Even after i cut his nails and trim it, still he will hurt or scratch himselves, coz his nails too hard, even cut short short also uselss....my heart so pain when i saw him get hurt, then i will scold Kelvin! Why scold Kelvin? Coz JQ's nails also like Kelvin!!

When JQ was small, he like to use his hands to touch his face or put inside his mouth. As we afraid he will scratch himself, and it is dirty to put hand into mouth, so, we 'lock' his hands by put both of his hand into his pants...like the shown photo ;p Then, he cannot take out his hand.

When he still small, about 3months, he still ok to let you put his hands there. But after he grew up, about 4-5months, he started to try to take out his hands, if cannot, then he will ng-ng-ng...making noise. And slowly, he will manage to take out his hand



But we still like to put his hands like that, coz he looks so cute :p like robot... ;p

Of course, after he grew up, then this was not workable, coz he had enough energy to take out his hands... :) i think now if i put his hands into his pants, he will 'play' his bird-bird ;p