That day JQ got flu, so we brought him to clinic. Coz takut clinic not opened during CNY...again, lao-mao-bing!!! You know what? JQ got sensitive nose since he born. So, always go clinic, till i also know what medicine (allergy medicine) he needs to take ;p so, doctor got once said : no cure d, lao mau bing!!! (coi coi coi...just sensitive nose ;p grow up will be better. Who ask him 1 2 like his father and my brother!!!) So, now, everytime he go to clinic, doctor will ask him : Ni shen me bing ? JQ will say : lao-mau-bing! hahahahahahha....
okok, back to the topic ;p
that day, we went to clinic. JQ was playing a chair and a car, then got two gals (elder than JQ) suddenly came and took his chair. JQ immediately cried la....so, i told him, you have to settle the problem yourself, crying is useless. I asked him to go and take back the chair himself if he still want to play.
Then JQ went to the two gals, quite a distance, so i cannot hear what JQ said. But i saw him chap-you (cantonese, means put his hands at the waist there, like to show his anger), then he managed to took back his chair. i so surprise! Coz JQ very timid, this is the first time, he managed to do that. So, i actually quite happy, then i asked him what he said to the jie jie? He told me : I want this! (He spoke English...).
I terus wanted to pengsan!!!!!!!!! hahahhahahahhaa....i never expert he will say this to the jie jie! I then told him cannot la, must ask back the thing politely...
Then after that, he wanted to play the slide, but the jie jie were playing. So, i asked him to go ask the jie jie if he can play together. I taught him must say politely : can i play together?
Then JQ walked there....Then, i don't know what he said, but then he returned with his crying face....hahahhahha...why? of course la, he chap-you again! So not friendly, of course people do not let him play la ;p
Then, i still not helping him. I asked him if he wanted to play, then he has to think/settle himself. Then he went to ask again with him chap-you pose again....of course, returned with crying face still...
after that, the jie jie went in see doctor, JQ quickly went to play the slide....
Who teach my son chap-you??? Sigh....go school is like that la...u will learn good and bad things....
i always teach JQ: you cannot bully people, but you cannot let others bully you too!
Hope slowly can train him be brave buy in proper manners....
Hello, I am JQ’s mother, Siow Hui. This blog is to record down story of my son, JQ. Hehe…actually JQ already 22 months, but now only I decided to write something to record his story. And, actually I suppose to write in Chinese words, but since my JQ has 11 Kai Ma and some of them don’t know Chinese words, so I have to write it in English. My English is ‘private limited co.’ so, pls forgive my broken English. I have no patient to check and correct my grammar or spelling error… ;p
Thursday, January 26, 2012
mummy angry!!
JQ takut a lot of things....he timid boy mah. But i think he paling takut his mummy ANGRY! ;p
Yes, i will angry too. I think my friend seldom see me angry...i actually very bad temper when i still young (of course now i not old la ;p). But my EQ turned good after i knew this : Angry is a punishment to yourself due to others people fault
i think when JQ's kai ma read till here, they will think : what?? JQ's blog also will read this mamahui phyllosophy???
hahahhahahha.....
okok, back to topic...
i seldom scold JQ, unless he very naughty and didn't listen to me. JQ i repeated something cannot, but he still want to do. Or, he kept on lao-gai.
So, when i told him : Mummy is angry! And, i showed him my black face and tak layan him....he very takut. He will keep quiet. Then he will look at me with his very ke-lian look (immediately, you won't angry anymore, but still have to pretend angry...), till his tears inside the eyes, and then tears come out...
Then, i will 'talk' to him d la. I meant tell him why i angry etc la...
Then after he said sorry and i will give him a big hug....
Actually JQ very good boy, except like to lao-gai sometimes. maybe i should once, really angry to him, see if he will still lao-gai or not. JQ, be ready!
hhahahahhaha....
Yes, i will angry too. I think my friend seldom see me angry...i actually very bad temper when i still young (of course now i not old la ;p). But my EQ turned good after i knew this : Angry is a punishment to yourself due to others people fault
i think when JQ's kai ma read till here, they will think : what?? JQ's blog also will read this mamahui phyllosophy???
hahahhahahha.....
okok, back to topic...
i seldom scold JQ, unless he very naughty and didn't listen to me. JQ i repeated something cannot, but he still want to do. Or, he kept on lao-gai.
So, when i told him : Mummy is angry! And, i showed him my black face and tak layan him....he very takut. He will keep quiet. Then he will look at me with his very ke-lian look (immediately, you won't angry anymore, but still have to pretend angry...), till his tears inside the eyes, and then tears come out...
Then, i will 'talk' to him d la. I meant tell him why i angry etc la...
Then after he said sorry and i will give him a big hug....
Actually JQ very good boy, except like to lao-gai sometimes. maybe i should once, really angry to him, see if he will still lao-gai or not. JQ, be ready!
hhahahahhaha....
finally JQ ng-ng in toilet...
Now is lunch hour, but nevermind la, i sudah makan....whahahahhaha.....
i dunno if i mentioned before that, JQ did not want to ng-ng in toilet...i bought the child toilet seat to him, but he also didn't want. Cried so loud, so ke-lian....you know what, i looked for this child toilet seat for so long....in 1 U, parkson, online, even his kai ma in sabah also find for me, and said want to courier to me. But end up i found in a baby shop, but JQ didn't want....
Then what to do? continue to ng-ng in tam-tong lor...so, those parents-to-be....once your child turned one, and can sit the children toilet seat, please let them ng-ng in toilet, pls don't lazy like us!!
After that case, we went to bangkok for family trip. JQ didn't want to ng-ng, eventhough his fug so smelly d....we knew that he tahan, coz he didn't want to ng-ng in toilet...
The day before we came back, we lunch in a restaurant. I saw his face, i knew that he wanted to ng-ng but he tahan. So, i brought him to toilet, then i clean the toilet seat, then force him to sit there and ng-ng....
Of course, JQ cried gila la....but i don't care, let him cry, but i talked sweet to him, said will buy robot to him if he ng-ng. You know what, i takut people ingat i child abuse, i let the door opened....hahahhahahha.....
end up, JQ got ng-ng la....finally....and of course, i got bought him a robot when back to KL.
since then, JQ ng-ng in toilet d....
But till now, he will still tahan, don't want to go toilet ng-ng. I have to always observe his face, then 'tam' him go toilet ng-ng, tell him that i will accompany him....so usually he ng-ng at night when reach home...and, i have to open the door, and sit outside wait for me....
Then he very cute...asyik want to chat with me when he ng-ng... ;p then when ng-ng come out d or coming out, he will say : ng-ng chu lai liao or ng-ng yao chu lai liao....
hhahahahhahha.....now slowly have to train him go toilet without us....
i dunno if i mentioned before that, JQ did not want to ng-ng in toilet...i bought the child toilet seat to him, but he also didn't want. Cried so loud, so ke-lian....you know what, i looked for this child toilet seat for so long....in 1 U, parkson, online, even his kai ma in sabah also find for me, and said want to courier to me. But end up i found in a baby shop, but JQ didn't want....
Then what to do? continue to ng-ng in tam-tong lor...so, those parents-to-be....once your child turned one, and can sit the children toilet seat, please let them ng-ng in toilet, pls don't lazy like us!!
After that case, we went to bangkok for family trip. JQ didn't want to ng-ng, eventhough his fug so smelly d....we knew that he tahan, coz he didn't want to ng-ng in toilet...
The day before we came back, we lunch in a restaurant. I saw his face, i knew that he wanted to ng-ng but he tahan. So, i brought him to toilet, then i clean the toilet seat, then force him to sit there and ng-ng....
Of course, JQ cried gila la....but i don't care, let him cry, but i talked sweet to him, said will buy robot to him if he ng-ng. You know what, i takut people ingat i child abuse, i let the door opened....hahahhahahha.....
end up, JQ got ng-ng la....finally....and of course, i got bought him a robot when back to KL.
since then, JQ ng-ng in toilet d....
But till now, he will still tahan, don't want to go toilet ng-ng. I have to always observe his face, then 'tam' him go toilet ng-ng, tell him that i will accompany him....so usually he ng-ng at night when reach home...and, i have to open the door, and sit outside wait for me....
Then he very cute...asyik want to chat with me when he ng-ng... ;p then when ng-ng come out d or coming out, he will say : ng-ng chu lai liao or ng-ng yao chu lai liao....
hhahahahhahha.....now slowly have to train him go toilet without us....
wa-gong > music class = kai ma
Apa tu?? read then you know... ;p
Sometimes, when u ask him to choose, he apa pun mau!
For example, that day i asked him:
me: you want to go music class or go see lion dance with kai ma (coz we have gathering with his kai ma during CNY).
JQ : i want to go music class then go look for kai ma
me : cannot, tak sempat. Must choose one
JQ : (think) i go look see lion dance then go music class (just terbalik the sequence... ;p)
me : cannot la, same time, only can choose 1.
JQ : i want to go music class then go look for kai ma
hahhahahhaha....i don't know if he cannot understand what i meant or he really 'cannot' choose ;p
then before CNY, we have gathering with Kai ma, and my dad, JQ's grandpa is back too. So:
(before gathering...he given me the same answer...)
Me: you want to look for wa-gong or kai ma?
JQ : i want to look for wa-gong, then look for kai ma
(so, i planning to visit my dad, before i bring him to look for kai ma. But after i reached my parents house and he saw his wa-gong...)
Me : JQ, you want to look for kai ma or not?
JQ : Bu yao, wo yao gen wa-gong yi qi (don't want, i want together with wa-gong)
Even his kai ma came fetch me, i asked him again, he also don't want to go....
means the priority is wa-gong > music class = kai ma.....hahhahahhaha....
Sometimes, when u ask him to choose, he apa pun mau!
For example, that day i asked him:
me: you want to go music class or go see lion dance with kai ma (coz we have gathering with his kai ma during CNY).
JQ : i want to go music class then go look for kai ma
me : cannot, tak sempat. Must choose one
JQ : (think) i go look see lion dance then go music class (just terbalik the sequence... ;p)
me : cannot la, same time, only can choose 1.
JQ : i want to go music class then go look for kai ma
hahhahahhaha....i don't know if he cannot understand what i meant or he really 'cannot' choose ;p
then before CNY, we have gathering with Kai ma, and my dad, JQ's grandpa is back too. So:
(before gathering...he given me the same answer...)
Me: you want to look for wa-gong or kai ma?
JQ : i want to look for wa-gong, then look for kai ma
(so, i planning to visit my dad, before i bring him to look for kai ma. But after i reached my parents house and he saw his wa-gong...)
Me : JQ, you want to look for kai ma or not?
JQ : Bu yao, wo yao gen wa-gong yi qi (don't want, i want together with wa-gong)
Even his kai ma came fetch me, i asked him again, he also don't want to go....
means the priority is wa-gong > music class = kai ma.....hahhahahhaha....
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Honey Flower
You must be thinking....what is honey flower.... ;p
Honey flower actually is a drink....is CHRYSANTHEMAM TEA!!! Hhahahahahaha.....
I don't know who told him that the drink is Honey Flower, maybe he named it himselves, coz coz he saw the flower on the packaging, and it sweet like honey... ;p
He loves this Honey Flower drinks a lot. Every time he saw it, he wants to drink. Got two funny story about this....wrote till here, i like wrote this story before, but never mind la ;p
Story 1:
One day, we went to kelvin's friend pre-wedding dinner. Then JQ played with a group of friend. Then those kids found this honey flower drink, but not enough, so JQ didn't get lor...
So, he so sad, and wanna cry...so cham!!! he really very sad... asked me to get one for him, but really do not have. So, i told him i will buy for him next time. But still he very sad. But he still ok la. I think he didn't cry, cannot recall, coz happened last year.
Then the next day, i really bought honey flower for him. He so happy. And, i bought one to the restaurant (wedding dinner of kelvin's friend). When i took out from my bag, he so happy. Then when he saw the group of kids, he told them: i have honey flower! hahhahahha....his turn to show off ;p
Then, after this wedding dinner, the week after we have another wedding dinner to attend, he expected honey flower come out from my bag again....hahahhaha...sorry, i didn't bring ;p but he ok la, he can yam sing enough ;p
Story 2:
I do not know why, JQ likes to say : wo mei you li (i no energy)...coz want us to carry him.
Then got once, he said he no energy again! Really pretend no energy till cannot walk, for i think dragged there around few minutes. But i tak layan him la.
Then, i took out Honey Flower, and said, who want to drink? But no energy people cannot drink. In less than 1 second, he terus become energetic!!! Showed me his energetic strong arm!!! hahahahhah....
I asked him : oh, you got energy already? He smile pai-seh-ly...hahahhahha....
Honey flower actually is a drink....is CHRYSANTHEMAM TEA!!! Hhahahahahaha.....
I don't know who told him that the drink is Honey Flower, maybe he named it himselves, coz coz he saw the flower on the packaging, and it sweet like honey... ;p
He loves this Honey Flower drinks a lot. Every time he saw it, he wants to drink. Got two funny story about this....wrote till here, i like wrote this story before, but never mind la ;p
Story 1:
One day, we went to kelvin's friend pre-wedding dinner. Then JQ played with a group of friend. Then those kids found this honey flower drink, but not enough, so JQ didn't get lor...
So, he so sad, and wanna cry...so cham!!! he really very sad... asked me to get one for him, but really do not have. So, i told him i will buy for him next time. But still he very sad. But he still ok la. I think he didn't cry, cannot recall, coz happened last year.
Then the next day, i really bought honey flower for him. He so happy. And, i bought one to the restaurant (wedding dinner of kelvin's friend). When i took out from my bag, he so happy. Then when he saw the group of kids, he told them: i have honey flower! hahhahahha....his turn to show off ;p
Then, after this wedding dinner, the week after we have another wedding dinner to attend, he expected honey flower come out from my bag again....hahahhaha...sorry, i didn't bring ;p but he ok la, he can yam sing enough ;p
Story 2:
I do not know why, JQ likes to say : wo mei you li (i no energy)...coz want us to carry him.
Then got once, he said he no energy again! Really pretend no energy till cannot walk, for i think dragged there around few minutes. But i tak layan him la.
Then, i took out Honey Flower, and said, who want to drink? But no energy people cannot drink. In less than 1 second, he terus become energetic!!! Showed me his energetic strong arm!!! hahahahhah....
I asked him : oh, you got energy already? He smile pai-seh-ly...hahahhahha....
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