i want this!!!

That day JQ got flu, so we brought him to clinic. Coz takut clinic not opened during CNY...again, lao-mao-bing!!! You know what? JQ got sensitive nose since he born. So, always go clinic, till i also know what medicine (allergy medicine) he needs to take ;p so, doctor got once said : no cure d, lao mau bing!!! (coi coi coi...just sensitive nose ;p grow up will be better. Who ask him 1 2 like his father and my brother!!!) So, now, everytime he go to clinic, doctor will ask him : Ni shen me bing ? JQ will say : lao-mau-bing! hahahahahahha....

okok, back to the topic ;p

that day, we went to clinic. JQ was playing a chair and a car, then got two gals (elder than JQ) suddenly came and took his chair. JQ immediately cried la....so, i told him, you have to settle the problem yourself, crying is useless. I asked him to go and take back the chair himself if he still want to play.

Then JQ went to the two gals, quite a distance, so i cannot hear what JQ said. But i saw him chap-you (cantonese, means put his hands at the waist there, like to show his anger), then he managed to took back his chair. i so surprise! Coz JQ very timid, this is the first time, he managed to do that. So, i actually quite happy, then i asked him what he said to the jie jie? He told me : I want this! (He spoke English...).

I terus wanted to pengsan!!!!!!!!! hahahhahahahhaa....i never expert he will say this to the jie jie! I then told him cannot la, must ask back the thing politely...

Then after that, he wanted to play the slide, but the jie jie were playing. So, i asked him to go ask the jie jie if he can play together. I taught him must say politely : can i play together?

Then JQ walked there....Then, i don't know what he said, but then he returned with his crying face....hahahhahha...why? of course la, he chap-you again! So not friendly, of course people do not let him play la ;p

Then, i still not helping him. I asked him if he wanted to play, then he has to think/settle himself. Then he went to ask again with him chap-you pose again....of course, returned with crying face still...

after that, the jie jie went in see doctor, JQ quickly went to play the slide....

Who teach my son chap-you??? Sigh....go school is like that la...u will learn good and bad things....

i always teach JQ: you cannot bully people, but you cannot let others bully you too!

Hope slowly can train him be brave buy in proper manners....