Hello, I am JQ’s mother, Siow Hui. This blog is to record down story of my son, JQ. Hehe…actually JQ already 22 months, but now only I decided to write something to record his story. And, actually I suppose to write in Chinese words, but since my JQ has 11 Kai Ma and some of them don’t know Chinese words, so I have to write it in English. My English is ‘private limited co.’ so, pls forgive my broken English. I have no patient to check and correct my grammar or spelling error… ;p
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
JQ in Genting
Yeah, another cute video of JQ, which taken when he was about 5months old.
The video was taken when we in First World Hotel. As the eather quite cold, so i 'wrap' JQ with his blanket. Haha...he so cute!
Then, he cannot move, and started to scream, and got one part, he like want to bite me coz cannot move....hhhahahhaha...enjoy :P
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Jiu-Ming ah = HELP!!!
Jiu-Ming ah!
Yes, JQ knows how to say Jiu Ming!! Who taught him? His good Mama ;p
Hehe, don't know why, i think little kids say Jiu-Ming is very cute, and also very important, if got bad man/woman want to hurt them.
I trained JQ said Jiu-Ming before he 1 year old. And, he knew how to say Jiu-Ming when he about 15months. Oh, interested how i trained JQ?? Hehe...
When JQ small, i like to play with him before he slept, actualy now also la. Then, i will catch his hands or legs, and don't let him move. Then, he will say Mai Ah, so i will correct him to say Jiu Ming! Of course initially he didn't know how to say la ;p
Slowly, he learned! And, he really Green Out From Blue, he really fully utilise this Jiu-Ming....he not only say Jiu Ming when we catch his hands/legs, but whenever we do something that against his will, he will say Jiu-Ming....this really make us laugh!
For example, if we gu-ci him, he will say Jiu Ming ah, if we hold his toys and don't want to let go, he will say Jiu-Mingah, if we hug him strong and don't let him leave, he will also say Jiu-Ming ah. And, the way he say Jiu-Ming, not just say ler, his expression hor, really like very 'suffer'.....aakkakkkakakkaka....
sometimes, i will purposely 'play' him, so that he will say Jiu-Ming, coz he is super cute!!! whahahhahahha....
Yes, JQ knows how to say Jiu Ming!! Who taught him? His good Mama ;p
Hehe, don't know why, i think little kids say Jiu-Ming is very cute, and also very important, if got bad man/woman want to hurt them.
I trained JQ said Jiu-Ming before he 1 year old. And, he knew how to say Jiu-Ming when he about 15months. Oh, interested how i trained JQ?? Hehe...
When JQ small, i like to play with him before he slept, actualy now also la. Then, i will catch his hands or legs, and don't let him move. Then, he will say Mai Ah, so i will correct him to say Jiu Ming! Of course initially he didn't know how to say la ;p
Slowly, he learned! And, he really Green Out From Blue, he really fully utilise this Jiu-Ming....he not only say Jiu Ming when we catch his hands/legs, but whenever we do something that against his will, he will say Jiu-Ming....this really make us laugh!
For example, if we gu-ci him, he will say Jiu Ming ah, if we hold his toys and don't want to let go, he will say Jiu-Mingah, if we hug him strong and don't let him leave, he will also say Jiu-Ming ah. And, the way he say Jiu-Ming, not just say ler, his expression hor, really like very 'suffer'.....aakkakkkakakkaka....
sometimes, i will purposely 'play' him, so that he will say Jiu-Ming, coz he is super cute!!! whahahhahahha....
We went to Redang...
My company trip for this year is Redang. Kelvin and i went Redang together with my colleagues. Supposingly, we want to bring JQ along, but my mother and my parents-in-law not agreed, so end up just Kelvin and i...of course, i also think that Redang trip not suitable for a 2-year-old boy...
This is a 'sad' story...pls prepare tissue when u wanted to read this...maybe is a sad story for a sad mother like me la....
I started to tell JQ that Kelvin n i will be away for few days for Lui-Sing (trip) and Zuo-Gong (work), and asked him OK or not. Those read by old post, you will know that if JQ said No, then if we do it, he will be angry n will lao-gai. So, since he said no, i will have to continue to pursuade him, till he said ok...
Few days before our trip, JQ finally said Ok, then he said : Ahhh, Mai Ah (means he will not 'Ahhhh' or scream or lao-gain when we not around:) So, i told JQ that he was a good boy.
On 1/7, Kelvin called me and said when i reached home, pls call his father, so that his father will bring JQ to go out, so that JQ will not see usleaving, then he will not cry. I knew that this arrangement was not good, but i did not object, since Kelvin already agreed, and my in-law who helped me to take care JQ wanted to do so. This is a big fault!
I knew that JQ will not cry even he saw us, and i felt that JQ wanted to say goodbye to us, same as me, i would like to say goodbye to JQ before we went to Redang....end up, we really did not say Goodbye to JQ... :(
When we in Redang, JQ really very good boy, he really did not 'Ahhhh' (means he did not lao-gai). But when during sleeping time, he did look for us, so my in-law told him that we went to work, so he was ok, but he looks a bit sad la. And, in the midnight, he will call Papa and Mama in his dream....he missing us....pity boy!
Oh, when we in Redang, Kelvin's sister take care of JQ at night. And, no need to say, i missed JQ a lot when we in the Redang trip. I kept telling Kelvin that if JQ is here, he will do this do that....JQ will sure happy!
Then yesterday night, we reached home late. We reached about 11pm. JQ already went upstairs. He did not sleep, and my in-law said he got lao-gai a bit, as someone told him that we coming back, so he wanted to wait for us.
Then, huh, feel like 1 2 cry now...i ran up to my room to see my lovely JQ. Then, we met half way, as my sister-in-law brought JQ down. When JQ saw me, i knew that he was surprised and happy, then he let me carry him. BUT, then, he asked my sis-in-law to carry him, he didn't want me to carry him! I knew he angry on me, coz i did not say goodbye to him when we went to Redang. You know what, he didn't want to look at me too...my heart so pain then! My tear almost came out at that moment!
I can feel that he actually missed me, but he also angry on me, so he didn't want to look at me and didn't want to let me carry him. After i comfort him, and said sorry to him, then only he let me carry him, but i still feel that he still angry on me...
Then, i let him read book, talked with him, played with him, apologized with him again, then slowly, he is ok, and i know he forgive us. Then, we asked him to give us big hug, and he gave us a very big hug...
At night, i still let him slept by his own, and i tap him to sleep. He cannot sleep but he did not make noise and look at me quietly, like afraid we will leave again... After i told him that we will not leave, and will sleep together with him, then only he slept, and his hand put on my face to ensure that i will not leave...my heart so pain then....my son still so small, but he already so lovly, anyhow, we hurt his heart....
In the midnight, he suddenly called Mama. I woke up and checked on him, then i told him that Mama is here. Then he put his little palm on my face, and continue to sleep...i really blame myself that time...
I told myself that i will never leave JQ without saying goodbye to him!! Unless very very special case that i cannot think of now....
JQ, Mama very sorry to you! Please forgive us, and this will not happen again...Now, i worried on our Taiwan trip. But i know the trip really not suitable to JQ, i will talk to JQ next week, to prepare him...or, i should really consider to bring JQ along??
This is a 'sad' story...pls prepare tissue when u wanted to read this...maybe is a sad story for a sad mother like me la....
I started to tell JQ that Kelvin n i will be away for few days for Lui-Sing (trip) and Zuo-Gong (work), and asked him OK or not. Those read by old post, you will know that if JQ said No, then if we do it, he will be angry n will lao-gai. So, since he said no, i will have to continue to pursuade him, till he said ok...
Few days before our trip, JQ finally said Ok, then he said : Ahhh, Mai Ah (means he will not 'Ahhhh' or scream or lao-gain when we not around:) So, i told JQ that he was a good boy.
On 1/7, Kelvin called me and said when i reached home, pls call his father, so that his father will bring JQ to go out, so that JQ will not see usleaving, then he will not cry. I knew that this arrangement was not good, but i did not object, since Kelvin already agreed, and my in-law who helped me to take care JQ wanted to do so. This is a big fault!
I knew that JQ will not cry even he saw us, and i felt that JQ wanted to say goodbye to us, same as me, i would like to say goodbye to JQ before we went to Redang....end up, we really did not say Goodbye to JQ... :(
When we in Redang, JQ really very good boy, he really did not 'Ahhhh' (means he did not lao-gai). But when during sleeping time, he did look for us, so my in-law told him that we went to work, so he was ok, but he looks a bit sad la. And, in the midnight, he will call Papa and Mama in his dream....he missing us....pity boy!
Oh, when we in Redang, Kelvin's sister take care of JQ at night. And, no need to say, i missed JQ a lot when we in the Redang trip. I kept telling Kelvin that if JQ is here, he will do this do that....JQ will sure happy!
Then yesterday night, we reached home late. We reached about 11pm. JQ already went upstairs. He did not sleep, and my in-law said he got lao-gai a bit, as someone told him that we coming back, so he wanted to wait for us.
Then, huh, feel like 1 2 cry now...i ran up to my room to see my lovely JQ. Then, we met half way, as my sister-in-law brought JQ down. When JQ saw me, i knew that he was surprised and happy, then he let me carry him. BUT, then, he asked my sis-in-law to carry him, he didn't want me to carry him! I knew he angry on me, coz i did not say goodbye to him when we went to Redang. You know what, he didn't want to look at me too...my heart so pain then! My tear almost came out at that moment!
I can feel that he actually missed me, but he also angry on me, so he didn't want to look at me and didn't want to let me carry him. After i comfort him, and said sorry to him, then only he let me carry him, but i still feel that he still angry on me...
Then, i let him read book, talked with him, played with him, apologized with him again, then slowly, he is ok, and i know he forgive us. Then, we asked him to give us big hug, and he gave us a very big hug...
At night, i still let him slept by his own, and i tap him to sleep. He cannot sleep but he did not make noise and look at me quietly, like afraid we will leave again... After i told him that we will not leave, and will sleep together with him, then only he slept, and his hand put on my face to ensure that i will not leave...my heart so pain then....my son still so small, but he already so lovly, anyhow, we hurt his heart....
In the midnight, he suddenly called Mama. I woke up and checked on him, then i told him that Mama is here. Then he put his little palm on my face, and continue to sleep...i really blame myself that time...
I told myself that i will never leave JQ without saying goodbye to him!! Unless very very special case that i cannot think of now....
JQ, Mama very sorry to you! Please forgive us, and this will not happen again...Now, i worried on our Taiwan trip. But i know the trip really not suitable to JQ, i will talk to JQ next week, to prepare him...or, i should really consider to bring JQ along??
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
JQ n Bye-Bye fever...
Whenever JQ had fever, we will put a Bye-Bye fever to help him to reduce temperature...But, JQ doesn't like it...if you still remember, JQ doesn't like ice-cream, so he doesn't like the cool bye-bye fever too :)
When we wanted to put on his forehead, he sure said Mai ah, unless we 'tipu' him, should say 'pujuk' la, that Shuang-Shuang wuh (Syiok), then only he will let us put unwillingly...
When he still very small, below 1 year old, he will cry if we put on it. But we still put la, coz he didn't want to let us put on wet towel, so had to put bye-bye fever la.
The photo taken in Pyramid. We went to shopping, then suddenly JQ like have light fever, so we buy and put on it....u see? His face so not happy... ;p
Hope no need to help JQ put on this anymore....and really say Bye Bye to Bye-Bye fever....huh....
When we were in USA....
Of course, JQ did not follow us to New York...Kelvin and i went to New York last year, as i went there for a conference and Kelvin just accompanied me, as he can save hotel cost for this trip...that time, JQ only 1.5years old...
Of course, i super missed my JQ when i in New York. I started to miss him when i took Limosine to airport...Everyday, i told Kelvin that i missed JQ...of course Kelvin also missed our lovely son...
Sometimes, when i missed JQ, i in sad and bad mood, i don't feel like want to talk to Kelvin...Kelvin dare not disturb me then...
Luckily, i got borrowed my sister mini laptop. So we MSN webcam with JQ on the third day. I so excited to see JQ on-line! JQ so surprised when he saw us thru computer. But we cannot hear his voice, coz the speaker got problem. But i know he saying Papa and Mama... :) When we back, my in-law said JQ happy when saw us thru computer, but when we offline, he become no mood...pity boy! Mummy also pity...
I cannot remember who bring us home, Limosine or my in-law, i just know that i told Kelvin that cannot fight with me to hug JQ! ;p Then, once i saw JQ, i terus hug JQ tight-tight and kissed him non-stop, same as him, gave me a big hug, and kept calling me Mama and touch my face, like afraid this is not real. Then i let Kelvin hug him, JQ didn't want, of course, end up got la.
And, JQ becomes Kolar Bear since then....where ever i go, he will follow, else he will cry. I went to toilet also he will cry, i know he scared i will away from him again. Pity Boy....can you imagine how sad he was when i am not around?? Now i think back, i also feel like want to cry...
The most sad case was...after i back from US for less than 1 week, my in-law suddenly brought JQ to Johor when i was working! That time i still not 'finished' missing my JQ, but they suddenly 'take' JQ away from me! Honestly, i really angry and sad that time! I am JQ mother, don't you think you should get my permission first? Ya, Kelvin got called me and said his mother want to bring JQ to Johor, so i asked Kelvin no need coz my mum can take care JQ. But end up, they bring without telling me officially...so sad and angry!!
That day, after i went back home, i don't want to talk to Kelvin. I know this was not Kelvin problem, but i can't stop myself to blame him! I told Kelvin that i know this is not his problem, but my mood really no good, i asked him no need to bother me, let me release myself. My tear came out non-stop that night, i cried till i fall asleep. My tear almost come out when i wrote this....
The next day, i dropped an email to Kelvin, told him how i feel, else i know i will burst...my tear also non-stop when i typed email to Kelvin...after that i become much better.
Then, almost every night, we got MSN or 3G JQ to chat with him. He so excited when he saw us. My in-law told us that after MSN, JQ became moody, lao-gai, and no stamina...so, after few days, we did not MSN or 3G JQ so frequent...Pity JQ and Pity Mama....
Then, till another weekend (JQ went there about 10days), then we went to Johor to bring back JQ. My heart like wanted to fly to Johor...When we reached there, almost 3am,coz traffic jam. Then, the first thing i did is rush to the room and kissed my JQ! JQ like know is me, he opened his eyes then looked at me like can't believe. Then he closed his eyes. He must be thinking that he was dreaming..haha...The next morning, when he woke up, he saw me slept next to him, he so happy and called me Mama! Oh, so sweet....
Since that day, JQ became super kolar bear...i must made sure myself around, when his eyes opened, else he will cry for Mama. Then, most difficult part was when i went to work....first few days, he really cried loudly, but slowly, become better...
Since then, we love each other more....and, Kelvin knows i will miss JQ, so wherever we go, we will bring JQ along....but, we are not bringing JQ to Redang and Taiwan trip, coz not suitable for JQ....anyway, i think i will be ok, although i will still miss my JQ...
JQ, Mama Love U!!
Of course, i super missed my JQ when i in New York. I started to miss him when i took Limosine to airport...Everyday, i told Kelvin that i missed JQ...of course Kelvin also missed our lovely son...
Sometimes, when i missed JQ, i in sad and bad mood, i don't feel like want to talk to Kelvin...Kelvin dare not disturb me then...
Luckily, i got borrowed my sister mini laptop. So we MSN webcam with JQ on the third day. I so excited to see JQ on-line! JQ so surprised when he saw us thru computer. But we cannot hear his voice, coz the speaker got problem. But i know he saying Papa and Mama... :) When we back, my in-law said JQ happy when saw us thru computer, but when we offline, he become no mood...pity boy! Mummy also pity...
I cannot remember who bring us home, Limosine or my in-law, i just know that i told Kelvin that cannot fight with me to hug JQ! ;p Then, once i saw JQ, i terus hug JQ tight-tight and kissed him non-stop, same as him, gave me a big hug, and kept calling me Mama and touch my face, like afraid this is not real. Then i let Kelvin hug him, JQ didn't want, of course, end up got la.
And, JQ becomes Kolar Bear since then....where ever i go, he will follow, else he will cry. I went to toilet also he will cry, i know he scared i will away from him again. Pity Boy....can you imagine how sad he was when i am not around?? Now i think back, i also feel like want to cry...
The most sad case was...after i back from US for less than 1 week, my in-law suddenly brought JQ to Johor when i was working! That time i still not 'finished' missing my JQ, but they suddenly 'take' JQ away from me! Honestly, i really angry and sad that time! I am JQ mother, don't you think you should get my permission first? Ya, Kelvin got called me and said his mother want to bring JQ to Johor, so i asked Kelvin no need coz my mum can take care JQ. But end up, they bring without telling me officially...so sad and angry!!
That day, after i went back home, i don't want to talk to Kelvin. I know this was not Kelvin problem, but i can't stop myself to blame him! I told Kelvin that i know this is not his problem, but my mood really no good, i asked him no need to bother me, let me release myself. My tear came out non-stop that night, i cried till i fall asleep. My tear almost come out when i wrote this....
The next day, i dropped an email to Kelvin, told him how i feel, else i know i will burst...my tear also non-stop when i typed email to Kelvin...after that i become much better.
Then, almost every night, we got MSN or 3G JQ to chat with him. He so excited when he saw us. My in-law told us that after MSN, JQ became moody, lao-gai, and no stamina...so, after few days, we did not MSN or 3G JQ so frequent...Pity JQ and Pity Mama....
Then, till another weekend (JQ went there about 10days), then we went to Johor to bring back JQ. My heart like wanted to fly to Johor...When we reached there, almost 3am,coz traffic jam. Then, the first thing i did is rush to the room and kissed my JQ! JQ like know is me, he opened his eyes then looked at me like can't believe. Then he closed his eyes. He must be thinking that he was dreaming..haha...The next morning, when he woke up, he saw me slept next to him, he so happy and called me Mama! Oh, so sweet....
Since that day, JQ became super kolar bear...i must made sure myself around, when his eyes opened, else he will cry for Mama. Then, most difficult part was when i went to work....first few days, he really cried loudly, but slowly, become better...
Since then, we love each other more....and, Kelvin knows i will miss JQ, so wherever we go, we will bring JQ along....but, we are not bringing JQ to Redang and Taiwan trip, coz not suitable for JQ....anyway, i think i will be ok, although i will still miss my JQ...
JQ, Mama Love U!!
Monday, June 28, 2010
Bear Bear Jelly Cake....
Deng-Deng-Deng-Deng-Deng!! The above is the Jellycake that i made for JQ for his birthday party. Nah, not only his Ling Tze Kai-Ma know how to make cake, i also know!!! Wahahahhaha....like got the 'vinegar' smell hor?? Kkakakakakakaka....of course la, i am not talent like Ling Tze Kai-Ma la, the cake she made is "AMAZING"!!! My jellycake looks 'terrible' at the eyes coz some technical problem. Initially, the bear got tear (coz color came out from the eyes), luckily, i manage to save it, but then caused it become like got dark circle....like Panda Bear... ;p whahahhahha....
Ok, ok, this blog is not to advertise cake.... ;p
When i made the jellycake, JQ was so kacau....oh, i purposely took one day leave to made the jellycake, coz on JQ birthday, i got class to attend. Then i went to my mum house to made it, as got more ga-chang (apparatus). And, i brought JQ along, so that my in-law can rest. Mana tau, my mum suddenly not free, coz her friend needed her help, so i will have to take care JQ and made Jellycake...
In order not to let JQ kacau me, i only started when he slept. Mana tau, he slept only 1hour+...i saja baru siap preparation and started a bit, he sudah bangun!! Oh, luckily Kelvin came during lunch hour, coz i forgot to bring some ingredient, so Kelvin got help to take care JQ a while, before he went to work...
So, we let him watched Lion Dance VCD (he love to watch Lion Dance, that day we repeated the VCD for 3times, can fight with Bee Movie....). But he watched a while, then he came kacau me, said Mama, Bao Ba ah. Kan Bear-Bear Xiong ah! (Mama carry me, see Bear-Bear).
Then, i have to carry him, else he will not leave....then, i will bring him back to living hall. This 'process' repeated few times....till finished ;p
Then, what was his expression when he saw bear-bear xiong?? i think you know the answer... :) yes, he said : Wah, Bear-Bear Xiong oh! Mei-Mei oh (wah, bear-bear, pretty oh).
When the jellycake was done, and remove from the container, JQ was so happy, and even clapped his hand and laugh!! SO cute!!
Then, i put the jellycake in the fridge, he kept on asking me to open the fridge to let him watch the bear-bear-xiong. He will bring me to the fridge, then said, Mama Kai ah, Yao Kan ah (Mama open, want to see ah)....whahhahhaha....
Then, during his birthday party, he so happy to see his bear-bear xiong! Oh, one thing, he like to blow candles too. Then, we cut the jellycake to eat, he said Boh?? (no more) Luckily, he not crying la ;p
Then, my brother came (late). He brought my brother to see his Bear-Bear jellycake...so cute!!
Next year, what cake to make ler?? ;p
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Zhe-Li/Na-Li and Wo/Ni
Zhe Li = here
Na Li = there
Wo = I
Ni = You
JQ cannot differentiate the above yet, i think quite normal for kids la...;)
As i said, JQ normally call himself JQ, seldom used I. But lately, i teach him say I. But he always confuse the Wo and Ni. For example, when he want to eat apple, he will say : Ni Yao (you want). Then i will correct him, then only he will say Wo Yao.
Then for Zhe Li and Na Li...when he play ball, he will instruct us where to stand. Then, he will mix up this Zhe Li and Na Li. He will say Zhan Zhe Li (stand here), so we will go stand near him lor, but he will push us away to another place, so i have to correct him : Na Li...
Most funny was yesterday night. JQ suddenly woke up in he midnight, should be dreaming la, so, i gave him some water, and tap him so that he will sleep. Then, he kept on saying Mama, Zhe Li Zhe Li. I thaught he asked me to sleep on his bed, so i told him : No, Mama want to sleep Mama bed. But still he kept on said Mama Zhe Li Zhe Li, of course i still say No la.
Then, he pushed my hand away, and said Mama Zou Kai ah(Mama, go away)! So, i just go away, then JQ terus tidur.... Wahahhahhaa....then only i realised that he actually wanted to say Mama Na Li (means asked me to go back to my bed), but he said wrongly, but i did not think of that. Coz normally, he loves me to tap him to sleep.....
Whahahhahha....
Na Li = there
Wo = I
Ni = You
JQ cannot differentiate the above yet, i think quite normal for kids la...;)
As i said, JQ normally call himself JQ, seldom used I. But lately, i teach him say I. But he always confuse the Wo and Ni. For example, when he want to eat apple, he will say : Ni Yao (you want). Then i will correct him, then only he will say Wo Yao.
Then for Zhe Li and Na Li...when he play ball, he will instruct us where to stand. Then, he will mix up this Zhe Li and Na Li. He will say Zhan Zhe Li (stand here), so we will go stand near him lor, but he will push us away to another place, so i have to correct him : Na Li...
Most funny was yesterday night. JQ suddenly woke up in he midnight, should be dreaming la, so, i gave him some water, and tap him so that he will sleep. Then, he kept on saying Mama, Zhe Li Zhe Li. I thaught he asked me to sleep on his bed, so i told him : No, Mama want to sleep Mama bed. But still he kept on said Mama Zhe Li Zhe Li, of course i still say No la.
Then, he pushed my hand away, and said Mama Zou Kai ah(Mama, go away)! So, i just go away, then JQ terus tidur.... Wahahhahhaa....then only i realised that he actually wanted to say Mama Na Li (means asked me to go back to my bed), but he said wrongly, but i did not think of that. Coz normally, he loves me to tap him to sleep.....
Whahahhahha....
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