JQ and Ng-Ng....

hehe....i just finished my lunch, writing this topic like too smelly....akkakkkakaka....

u know how I choose to write what topic?? Hehe….what pop out from my mind, then I just write….don’t care the sequence, don’t care the grammar ;p

Ok ok, back to the smelly topic…

When JQ was small, his tong-tong (means potty) is blue color (like this photo. JQ was ng-ng at our house)….oh, before I forgot, JQ has 3 tong-tong….one at our house, one at my in-law house, one at my mum house, actually Sarung (to let JQ sleep in the day time) also has 3…

Ok ok, back to the topic…. ;p

When JQ was small, he very cute when he wanted to Ng-Ng. He really will ‘push’ all his energy to his tummy, to push out the Ng-Ng. His face will be the ‘pushing ng-ng’ face and will turn a bit red, coz using energy mah. What is pushing Ng-Ng face? You try to use energy to push out you Ng-Ng, then you will understand ;p And, sometimes, he will make the Ng…. sound. So cute…

I like to put my hand on his tummy when he Ng-Ng. Why? Got few reasons…first is to know that whether he got ‘put energy’ to Ng-Ng or not. Second is his tummy is soft and warm, very comfortable. Third is very cute when he ‘pushing’ his Ng-Ng, coz his tummy will ‘go’ inside (I actually think of to write ‘suck’ inside, I think more accurate ;p) ….

Then after the Ng-Ng came out, he will ‘relieve’…like very relax and comfortable. I think he quite enjoy in Ng-Ng if the Ng-Ng not to difficult to push out ;p

Normally JQ will Ng-Ng everyday, but once a while, he will have no Ng-Ng. For the first time he very difficult to Ng-Ng, I think is when he is about 6months old. Pity boy…the Ng-Ng is too hard and almost like 20 cents coin in diameter…Pls remember, JQ only 6months old, his anus not that big…So, JQ was crying loudly. I quietly asked the maid to prepare a warm water and then soak JQ inside, of course just buttock la, not the whole people…..Then, I hold his both leg bend toward his tummy (his back side at my body la), so that can help him to push out the Ng-Ng. Oh, warm water will help to make the intestine to ‘move’ faster, so will help to push out the Ng-Ng…

JQ still crying, but I never ‘give-up’ coz I already can see the Ng-Ng from his anus, if the Ng-Ng not came out, JQ also will suffer…so, I came on asked him to try push, and finally, the Ng-Ng came out, it was about 3cm long, 20cents coin diameter…Not only JQ relieve, I also relieve, coz I actually very sakit hati that time…

Then, he continued to Ng-Ng in his tong-tong ‘smoothly’….

Oh, before I forgot, suppose to write in the ‘JQ no longer wear pampers’, but missed out, anyway, still relevant…when we train him to shi-shi in toilet, we asked him to tell us if he wanted to shi-shi. But he will tell us he wanted to Ng-Ng, as he cannot differentiate Ng-Ng and Shi-Shi yet. Now, of course he knows how to differentiate, so he will tell us he wanted to Shi-Shi or Ng-Ng….JQ will tell us he wanted to Ng-Ng since he was about 8-9months old. Normally, if he told us he wanted to Ng-Ng, it was real.

Ok ok, back to topic again….this post, a lot of others thing cut Q… ;p

When JQ bigger, whenever he cannot Ng-Ng, we sometimes will let him had papaya. So, if he knew that he cannot Ng-Ng, he some times will tell us : Pa-pa-ya. Oh ya, Pa-pa-ya, was the first 3 tunes word that JQ can say properly!!! Oops, jump again… ;p Coz JQ knows we will let him eat Papaya…hahaha…

JQ tong-tong changed to red color, bigger size when he was about 1 year old. Also got 3 tong-tong…

Two months ago, JQ cannot Ng-Ng one day, also a ‘hard’ Ng-Ng…So I told him that I will Bang-Mang (means help). Then I helped him by holding his both legs towards his tummy, so that he can push his energy to push out the Ng-Ng. The Ng-Ng just came out easily. The funny part was later….After I Bang-Mang him, every time he Ng-Ng, he will ask me to Bang-Mang….akakkakakka….he will say: Mama, Bang-Mang ah…so cute!!!! It last almost 2-3weeks…

When my in-law let him Ng-Ng (when I working), JQ also will ask his grandma to Bang-Mang, but as my in-law didn’t know that I Bang-Mang JQ before, so she didn’t understand what JQ talking. Till one day, I Bang-Mang JQ again, then only my in-law ‘realize’….hahahhaha….

Oh, one more thing about Ng-Ng…lately, I think about 2months, every time I let JQ Ng-Ng, I will ask him to see his Ng-Ng. Haha…JQ so cute, he will look at the Ng-Ng, then he said E…., then his face showing that is very dirty and smelly face….so CUTE!!!!!!!!!!!

Nah, I wanted to let him see his Ng-Ng, one is to ‘bully’ him la, coz he looks cute when he see his Ng-Ng ;p but most important is to let him not afraid to Ng-Ng. Actually it is good to observe Ng-Ng, so that you can know whether we healthy or not. If he not ‘afraid’ in Ng-Ng, then only he can be trained to Ng-Ng himself in toilet mah…

Ok, enough for this smelly topic ;p

Angry JQ

Don't be frighthen by the title...when JQ angry, it is not terrible at all...but funny, cute and unexpected... ;p hehe....

When JQ will get angry? Or, maybe i should say lao-gai.

When he wanted to play or take something, but you not allowed...he angry...

When he wanted to eat something, but you not allowed....he angry...

When he watching TV (cartoon), you suddenly change channel.....he angry...

When he drawing on newspaper or any material that you not allowed....he angry...

When he wanted to go walk-walk, but you say no to him...he angry...

Hehe...most important, what he will do when he angry?? This is the most funny, cute and unexpected part... ;p

When he lao-gai...means when you say no or not allowed him to do something, he will cry with angry tune or make the 'er......' sound, then run,run,run around the place he stand, then suddenly 'pounce' on table or chair or wall near to him....then stop there by a post of 'resting' (where his hand put on his forehead, and face down)! wahahahhaha....

The first time he had the above 'reaction' when he was about 20months, we really get shock! Haha....how come this is the way he 'angry'....normally kids just will stand orsit then cry....

now i suddenly thinking of, lately he seldom have the above, or i should say like no more. He started to learn to 'express' himself, what he wanted. This have to thank his Mama, coz teaching him to 'tell' not just angry, coz no one will understand what he angry for... hehe....

oh, i shall continue...after the resting post, he will then walk to you with his crying face, and continue what he was doing before he angry. If you still say no or not allowed, then he will repeat the above 'action' again.....

akakkakakakkka....hmm...i have to admit that sometimes i will purposely say no to JQ, to see his angry 'action'...again, show that how i like to 'bully' my son... ;p

But if you say ok to him (when he stopped with the resting post), he will turn his body, with his lao-gai face, then continue what he wanted to do.

JQ character is actually stubborn like me. You have to give him what he wanted when he lao-gai, but express to him that you are angry with his action. Then, you have to talk to him after he calm down (make sure immediately, else he will forget). You have to tell him that you are angry or not happy with what he was doing. And, ask him whether wanted to repeat again the next time. If you can talk till he say 'Mai ah', normally he will not repeat again in the next time. Else, sorry la, if he did not say 'Mai ah' means he will still repeat...

If next time, he has the intention to do it (after he promised you 'Mai ah'), you have to remind him, then he will wave his hand and said 'Mai ah'. JQ is actually is a good boy, just you have to tell him in a soft way. He is sao-yun-ng-sao-ngang (cantonese).

Nah, the above is workable on JQ, but may not all others kid, so don't just follow how i teach JQ. We have to understand our children character, and use a suitable way to teach them...not easy to be parents right? :) but i enjoy it ;) why, coz my JQ is a lovely son ;)

JQ, actually Mama like to see you lao-gai la....coz very cute ;p but cannot, else, will be not good for you... :)

So coincidence...17 posts in April...

I just noticed that in April, i had posted 17 posts! And, my birthday is 17 April!

I think this 'coincidence' shows that JQ loves me a lot, till i write ngam-ngam 17 post in April!

wahahahhahahha....a Mama who shyiok sendiri... ;p

JQ in Penang...nice photo taken by Papa Kelvin

Kelvin made a nice photo shoot of JQ...and, very important is my son is cute!!! akakakkaka....actually still a lot of nice photo from Kelvin :)

The photo where JQ wearing Yellow cloth, was taken in Gek-Lok-Si in Penang. He Qing-Qing (cantonese, means Pray) to the big Guan-Yin in Gek-Lok-Si. He looks so sincere...

JQ knew how to Qing-Qing since he was about 9-10 months. That time, he liked to drive his Benz (walker) in my in-law house. So, when he 'knocked' the God table, or if he went near to the God table, he will Qing-Qing. And as his 'action' still not very smooth, thus he will Qing-Qing using very strong energy, thus very cute ;p When he knew how to say Qing-Qing, then, after he Qing-Qing, he will tell us that he Qing-Qing Ah....akakakkakkaka....

The photo in colourful cloth, was taken in Gopeng. We rest in Gopeng before we went to Penang. Oops, or, we come back from Penang, before we went back to KL?? Hehe...can't recall ;p But for sure, taken in Gopeng ;p

We let him wear the sunglass. He keep wanted to remove it, coz i think he find the world look black after he wore it ;p But he still like to wear la, coz we keep on saying he handsome when wearing it. That's why he smile so happy :) Honestly la, JQ look handsome with sunglasses...hehe....

Papa Kelvin & JQ, I-U....hehe, i learned from JQ, means I Love U....JQ still 'eat' the middle word, when i asked him to say I Love U to me ;p Oh, why i called Kelvin 'Papa Kelvin', coz JQ's kai-massssss called me Mama Hui :)

JQ no longer wear pampers...

Actually JQ wearing pampers (disposable diaper) since JQ was born, till he was about 21 months.

Why? Coz JQ shi-shi quite frequent so if wear normal cotton diaper, my mother-in-law will be too tiring. JQ is like me, we drink a lot of water, also 'come out' a lot of water, we cannot 'retain' water in our body ;p

So, we spend a lot in Mamypoko. We did try others cheaper brand, but as they cannot 'keep' a lot of shi-shi, thus we have to use this brand. One day, JQ will use about 4-5pcs Mamypoko, means one month about 120-150pcs Mamypoko. 1 piece is RM0.90+, means one month we spend RM120 in Mamypoko alone...

But after Tiger CNY, then i started to train him up to shi-shi inside toilet. I asked him to tell me if he wanted to shi-shi, and cannot shi-shi on his pant. Oh, of course, at night, he still wearing Mamypoko when he sleeping la...actually he wearing day time when he sleeping too, but normally he wan't shi-shi, unless it is a cool day.

Initially, he didn't know how to tell me that he wanted to shi-shi, so i had to bring him to toilet every 30minutes, as he cannot tahan. Then slowly, he learnt to 'control he shi-shi, now about 45minute once. Sometime evern 1.5hours once.

Sometimes, he will forgot to tell me that we wanted to shi-shi, especially when he was playing, he will shi-shi out....Now better, he will tell us that he wanted to shi-shi,then only we bring him to shi-shi. But sometimes, we do have to remind him and ask him wanted to shi-shi or not.

And, when we asked him whether wanted to shi-shi or not, he always say Mai-ah. But when you bring him to toilet, he shi-shi a lot! Naughty boy! But if himself tell you that he wanted to shi-shi, then normally 100% is true, unless is in restaurant...

JQ is a clever boy. He knows that once he wanted to shi-shi, we will have to carry him to go shi-shi. So, he 'fully' utilise this 'benefit'...when we have our meal in restaurant, after sit till boring on his high chair, he will say he wanted to shi-shi. Then we will bring him to shi-shi, and he will shi-shi (sometimes, he won't shi-shi). Then he doesn't want to sit back his high chair, of course, we will not allow it, as i don't like my kid walked around in the restaurant, it is too dangerous!

So, when he sit back the chair, after few minutes, he will tell me that he wanted to shi-shi again!! So, naugthy! Hmm....actually so smart hor ;p

We will not tell lie to JQ. We will do whatever we promised to him, unless due to certain reason, we cannot do so. For example, we promise to bring him to playground, but then raining, then we will tell him we will bring him to playground again next time. So, i also don't know why he so 'smart' lor... ;p

oh, one more thing. Sometimes, certain place have no toilet, then JQ will shi-shi in drain or on ground. I know is not good, but small kid cannot tahan, but we will ask him to tahan la...ok, if have to shi-shi in drain or on ground, then he will qing-qing (means pray with both hand, to avoid disturb dirty 'things')....haha...teach by his grandma...so cute!

oh, one more one more! When i give JQ shi-shi in toilet, i will squad down, so JQ can touch my head. He so cute then almost every time, he will us his hand to tap gently on my hand, like sayang me. I will so 'warm' with it ;p

JQ, wish u shi-shi 'happily' ;p

JQ and zui-zui

JQ did have zui-zui (means pacifier) before, now no more.

Before he stopped, he can't sleep without his zui-zui, unless he fall asleep inside the car, then he will not request to have his zui-zui...

When JQ is born, i bought him the zui-zui with brand of Avent. The size was too big, although it was for new born. Maybe it is for White people like England, coz Avent is made in England. I think you may see the picture in my post of picture video.

Then, i changed to Pigeon, more suitable for him.

We had to make sure that we brought his zui-zui whenever we went out last time. Else, we will get suffer on our ears....Coz when JQ was small, he will sleep every two hours +. For example, if we went out for dinner, when we came back from dinner/lunch, JQ already wanted to sleep. Then, if without zui-zui, fuh-yoh, he will cry till like we abusing him! He will cry till his face also turned red, and his tears ah, really very very big drops! I always till Kelvin that next time we can train JQ to drop tear in less than 5 seconds!

If once a while, we really forgot to bring his zui-zui, we must cannot mention zui-zui in front of him, else you die! Then, we have to drive faster to go home. He just like our King, cannot be dak-zui... ;p

As long as he wanted to sleep, he making noise, crying, as long as he lou-gai, you plug in zui-zui to him, he will quiet....unless he really cried very loud la, then zui-zui also no used. Must calm him down, then only the zui-zui wil function on him.

Normally, after he slept, i will take out his zui-zui la, else people said his teeth will not nice. But sometimes hor, he suck it strongly, cannot be pulled out ;p and sometimes, the zui-zui willjust dropped out after he slept, coz he not sucking anymore.

Then, how he can suddenly stop it?? Hehe....this is the main part of this topic.. ;p

Last year, just after JQ birtday, we went to Genting for one day trip. I will write on this Genting trip next time. Then don't know how, i dropped his zui-zui! I actually put the pacifier in my pocket, but maybe i take my handphone, then the zui-zui dropped out, but i didn't notice...

That time, i think: mati la, now JQ playing, he will not cry for his zui-zui, but when go inside the car, then die la!

When i noticed i dropped his zui-zui, it was almost 9pm. I am so panic. I did walk around the indoor theme park to look for shop to see whether they selling zui-zui, but they didn't. I so gan-jeong, coz if later inside the car only he cried, then the driver cannot concentrate in driving mah...coz JQ will cry very loud!

So, when my mum came to look for me about 9.50pm, i quickly asked my mum to look after JQ. Then, from Genting indoor theme park, i ran to the First World Plaza, in order to buy zui-zui in Watsons! i rushed there in 10minutes! Unfortunately, no zui-zui there!

As we had to meet up at 10pm, so, i ran back quickly....till i almost 'no gas' d...huh....can u imagine i seldom exercise, and ran in Genting for 20miutes?? It was so tiring, till i hardly can talk...

When i reached the meet up point, i said sorry to JQ and told JQ that i lost his zui-zui. And, said mama tried to find but cannot find. Since you so big boy, no need to suck zui-zui already. He looked at me, he like knew that i talked with him, but i was not sure he understand or not....

You know what? When we entered the car, he did request for zui-zui, but after i said sorry to him again, and repeated to him that i lost his zui-zui. He did not make noise, and then he slept...maybe too tired. But i felt 'peace' and happy that he did not make noise....

Since that day, he stopped zui-zui...he still asked for his zui-zui whenever he wanted to sleep, for about 1month. We will tell him that Mama lost his zui-zui, sorry, then he will not make noise, and he will sleep...

After that when we saw his picture will zui-zui, he will say zui-zui! But when we asked him want zui-zui or not, he will say 'Mai ah'.... :) Good boy!

JQ sing Karaoke....

Yes, you are right! JQ sing karaoke when he was less than 2 year old ;p

oh, since all the previous post were old story, so i write a new story of JQ here...this was just happened yesterday :)

Yesterday, 1 May 2010, we celebrated Mother's day with Kelvin's grandma and mother, also all the relatives (Kelvin's father side)in one restaurant in Selayang. We having our dinner in a room with Karaoke. Then, when the dinner almost end, i brought JQ to near the television and microphone.

When i let him took the mic, he didn't want to let go. Coz he found that it was cute that when he 'talked' thru the mic, the sound was loud. Haha...he said with his smiley face: wah, da-da-sheng oh! (means very loud)

Then, i even taught him to sing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star (mandarin version). Haha...he sang the whole song together with me. Hai-yo, so quite! I not managed to take video that time, very regret....anyway, i did ask Kelvin to take video for JQ for the second time, this time he not that co-operative, as he knew we taking video of him ;p i will post the video after i saved it. Anyway, he still singing la :)

Oh, when JQ sang, JQ's uncle came (Kelvin's cousin, but only Form 1, i think). Then i asked him to sing lor, but he feel shy and didn't want to sing. So i told JQ that Ko-Ko hai-siu (means the brother feel shy). Then, everytime, JQ or I pointed the mic to the Ko-Ko and he didn't want to sing, JQ will tell me that : Ko-Ko hai-siu....aakakkakkaka...he learned so fast ;p

Besides, he dance together with the music. And, he will 'comment' on the MTV: Ko-ko oh, mei-mei oh, hao-ting oh etc (means brother oh, pretty oh, nice song oh....still oh-oh-oh). He very happy to 'play' with the mic, and didn't want to return to the seat.

When the last two dishes were ready, i brought him back to the seat. I had to cheat him that the mic was broken, and the waitress going to scold him, then only he followed me to go back unwillingly...

Before i finished, he made noise and said he wanted to go chang-ge (means sing). Then, after the dinner was end, JQ still didn't want to leave. He holding the mic, and didn't want to let it go. Even i off the mic (i didn't show him how to on/off the mic,else he will open himself!), and pretend it was spoilt, still he didn't want to let go. He even cried loudly for that. And, i let him cried thru the mic, to let him heard how bad of his crying sound...bad mother? i don't think so la ;p

then, i comfort him and calm him down, said that the mic was broken, and asked him to say bye-bye to the mic, then only he let go. Oh, another magic sentence to JQ : say bye-bye to XX la. Hehe, if JQ doesn't want to leave, or he taken something that he doesn't want to let go, you just need to tell him that magic sentence, then he will say: Bye-bye XX, and leave or put down the thing. Cute ler...

Actually when we told him that we want to leave some where, he will say Bye-bye to the thing that he was playing. Why my son so cute?? Coz he is my son ;p

now i am thinking i should buy him a guitar or a microphone for his two years old birthday ;p

oh, the photos shown are not taken from this ocasion. Actually they were being taken during the first time JQ sang karaoke during Tiger CNY, in a relative house. That time, JQ just taken the mic, not really sing. But he dance a lot during that time :)