Angry JQ

Don't be frighthen by the title...when JQ angry, it is not terrible at all...but funny, cute and unexpected... ;p hehe....

When JQ will get angry? Or, maybe i should say lao-gai.

When he wanted to play or take something, but you not allowed...he angry...

When he wanted to eat something, but you not allowed....he angry...

When he watching TV (cartoon), you suddenly change channel.....he angry...

When he drawing on newspaper or any material that you not allowed....he angry...

When he wanted to go walk-walk, but you say no to him...he angry...

Hehe...most important, what he will do when he angry?? This is the most funny, cute and unexpected part... ;p

When he lao-gai...means when you say no or not allowed him to do something, he will cry with angry tune or make the 'er......' sound, then run,run,run around the place he stand, then suddenly 'pounce' on table or chair or wall near to him....then stop there by a post of 'resting' (where his hand put on his forehead, and face down)! wahahahhaha....

The first time he had the above 'reaction' when he was about 20months, we really get shock! Haha....how come this is the way he 'angry'....normally kids just will stand orsit then cry....

now i suddenly thinking of, lately he seldom have the above, or i should say like no more. He started to learn to 'express' himself, what he wanted. This have to thank his Mama, coz teaching him to 'tell' not just angry, coz no one will understand what he angry for... hehe....

oh, i shall continue...after the resting post, he will then walk to you with his crying face, and continue what he was doing before he angry. If you still say no or not allowed, then he will repeat the above 'action' again.....

akakkakakakkka....hmm...i have to admit that sometimes i will purposely say no to JQ, to see his angry 'action'...again, show that how i like to 'bully' my son... ;p

But if you say ok to him (when he stopped with the resting post), he will turn his body, with his lao-gai face, then continue what he wanted to do.

JQ character is actually stubborn like me. You have to give him what he wanted when he lao-gai, but express to him that you are angry with his action. Then, you have to talk to him after he calm down (make sure immediately, else he will forget). You have to tell him that you are angry or not happy with what he was doing. And, ask him whether wanted to repeat again the next time. If you can talk till he say 'Mai ah', normally he will not repeat again in the next time. Else, sorry la, if he did not say 'Mai ah' means he will still repeat...

If next time, he has the intention to do it (after he promised you 'Mai ah'), you have to remind him, then he will wave his hand and said 'Mai ah'. JQ is actually is a good boy, just you have to tell him in a soft way. He is sao-yun-ng-sao-ngang (cantonese).

Nah, the above is workable on JQ, but may not all others kid, so don't just follow how i teach JQ. We have to understand our children character, and use a suitable way to teach them...not easy to be parents right? :) but i enjoy it ;) why, coz my JQ is a lovely son ;)

JQ, actually Mama like to see you lao-gai la....coz very cute ;p but cannot, else, will be not good for you... :)