JQ fell down on 28 March 2010

Yes, JQ fell down. I think quite normal that a kid fell down. But this time, he fell down till have to admit hospital for 24hours observation, coz he vomitted blood. Sound serious? Hmm....yes for me. Anyway, that time, i know that he will be ok, but of course, will still worried la ...

As i told my colleague in skype on this 'story' before, so i copied and pasted....hehe...lazy to type...

Oh, i did not put my colleague name here, in case she doesn't like it :) i had changed the conversation a bit, to make it more clear... :) so, this is not 100% same as the original conversation :)

[8:12:41 AM] Yip Siow Hui: Hi,morning!
[8:12:50 AM] Yip Siow Hui: my son is ok now. Thanks!
[8:13:38 AM] My colleague: what did doc say?
[8:13:46 AM] My colleague: why vomit blood?
[8:14:49 AM] Yip Siow Hui: doctor said as he knock his head, thus the brain get 'shock' n 'vibrate', thus will cause vomit
[8:15:32 AM] Yip Siow Hui: doctor said din see any blood from eyes, ears, nose and mouth....so the blood should not be fr brain
[8:15:44 AM] Yip Siow Hui: the blood maybe from body (my son Kai Ma, Sam, said maybe from throat, coz his throat was hurt after vomitting for few times)
[8:15:58 AM] Yip Siow Hui: but scan body d, it is ok
[8:16:19 AM] Yip Siow Hui: so, dun really know where the blood from...
[8:16:26 AM] My colleague: how can he climb up to dining table?
[8:16:34 AM] Yip Siow Hui: actually not he climb...
[8:16:55 AM] Yip Siow Hui: On Sun, i go Ching Ming with my husband, then my in-law take care my son
[8:17:16 AM] Yip Siow Hui: then, my son cried loudly for mama (this is the first time he cried for mama so 'seriously'. Normally he will stop after awhile)
[8:17:37 AM] Yip Siow Hui: cried till vomit inside the car (my in-law bring him to go breakfast, together with his Yi-Po), and don't want to let anyone to carry him
[8:17:56 AM] Yip Siow Hui: then (when reach home) my in-law put him on the dining table, coz want to wash towel to clean up my son
[8:18:06 AM] Yip Siow Hui: then, my son fall down....no one manage to catch him
[8:18:19 AM] My colleague: aiyo.....so careless
[8:18:30 AM] Yip Siow Hui: ya....maybe too gan-jiong... .
[8:19:01 AM] Yip Siow Hui: then, my son vomit after about 15min
[8:19:34 AM] Yip Siow Hui: then, my in-law called us. We thought that he cried till vomit. But still we quickly settled and went back.
[8:20:08 AM] Yip Siow Hui: when i reached home, he still crying loudly (even more loud when he saw me). Then i tried to comfort my son. I brought him up to our room. I played with him, read book with him, then chat with him. He no more crying then.
[8:20:20 AM] Yip Siow Hui: suddenly, he vomit again....which is a lot! (we lay down on bed. He vomitted on bed, then when i brought him to toilet, he continued to vomit. Really a lot....i think the 'amount' i similar to an adult)
[8:21:04 AM] Yip Siow Hui: i saw the vomit is with those brown brown color things....i thought is the bou-ying-dan that my in-law given to him, so i din really observe.... (maybe is blood, but i didn't see properly)
[8:21:56 AM] Yip Siow Hui: quickly bring him to clinic in Desa Parkcity. Doctor advised to bring him to hospital for scanning, if we found him different from usual (which i think so...normally he very active)
[8:22:17 AM] Yip Siow Hui: then, we go back to pack things to go hospital (coz Kelvin went to our Selayang house to clean the house, so need to wait him to rush back, as we in SPK in law house)
[8:22:34 AM] My colleague: which hospital?
[8:22:41 AM] My colleague: selayang?
[8:23:01 AM] Yip Siow Hui: Gleneagle, coz last time he fever non-stop, we go there too
[8:23:08 AM] Yip Siow Hui: cannot go Selayang
[8:23:35 AM] My colleague: i heard this hospital very ex
[8:23:39 AM] Yip Siow Hui: we went there once (Selayang Hospital) when my son high fever, even midnight, no patient also they VERY SUPER slow,.... (i will write the story one day)
[8:23:48 AM] Yip Siow Hui: ya, this Gleneagle very expensive
[8:24:00 AM] Yip Siow Hui: but my son got insurance, so can claim lor
[8:24:28 AM] My colleague: wow, so young u buy medical insurance for him?
[8:24:58 AM] Yip Siow Hui: before we went to hospital, my son vomit again after taking some milk. (coz we saw him already calm down, and he vomitted everything, so tummy should be empty.So,we actually let him drank half bottle of milk). This time we saw blood....huh, really speed to hospital then, luckily no jam (inside the car, i really prayed that JQ is ok. And my tears really come out non-stop. I hug him, and he slept. I kept moving him, to make sure he just fall asleep, not faint...)
[8:25:08 AM] Yip Siow Hui: ya, since he born, i bought insurance d
[8:25:18 AM] Yip Siow Hui: coz now, medical very expensive
[8:25:28 AM] My colleague: how much per mth?
[8:25:56 AM] Yip Siow Hui: i bought the Prudential insurance... .including saving (education)+ medical
[8:26:08 AM] Yip Siow Hui: oh, i bought RM325 per month.
[8:26:16 AM] Yip Siow Hui: can no need to buy so expensive 1 la
[8:26:28 AM] Yip Siow Hui: i think RM150 or RM200 per month also have
[8:26:43 AM] Yip Siow Hui: i think this policy not bad lor, and the agent also very good
[8:26:59 AM] Yip Siow Hui: she will follow up for us if any problem happened
[8:27:18 AM] My colleague: oic
[8:27:28 AM] My colleague: luckily nothing now hor
[8:29:02 AM] Yip Siow Hui: ya...
[8:29:18 AM] Yip Siow Hui: my in-law also very takut, and she felt so guilty...
[8:30:59 AM] Yip Siow Hui: i asked my husband dun blame her anymore, coz our son is hurt, and my in-law grandson is hurt too....so she felt sakit hati too...
JQ is ok now. Back to normal. Now takut on high high seat ;p but i think he will forget after few days. Now he will tell me he 'tie dao' (mandarin, means fell down)....naughty boy....

Since that day, he cried and not allowed me to go anywhere. Even i went toilet also he wanted to follow. He will called Mama in crying tune & face, then ran to the toilet to look for me. Poor boy, must really being frighten.

So, as i predicted that he will cry non-stop if i went to work on Wednesday ( i EL on Mon and Tue to accompany him in hospital and checking), so i had to talk to him. Previously, he sometime will cry too, but normally just for a while, and will stop after Kakak play with him. Since he fell down, i really talked to him again and again on Tuesday, to let him understand that i am going to work on Wed. Below our conversation:

Me : JQ, Mama going to work tomorrow, can or not?
JQ : Mai ah
Me : Yao la, Mama need to work. Mama play with you after work, ok?
JQ : Mai ah
Me : JQ 'you mei you guai'? (JQ is good boy or not?)
JQ : You ah
Me : then JQ have to listen to Mama. Mama play with you after Mama back from work,ok?
JQ : Yao ah.
Me : Mama promised (then i hook his finger, as promised)

A magic sentense to JQ is "Jia Qing you mei you guai?". He will listen to you then. But if he didn't answer you 'you ah', then he will not listen to you. So, must make sure he answer you.

The next day, when i went to work. I repeated the same conversation with him. He didn't cry, but his face very very sad, and almost crying. Then he said 'bye bye' with crying voice to me. I really felt like don't want to go to work then....this repeated for few days....his grandma asked him where is Mama, he will say Zuo-Gong (working), and totally no mood to play....

Then when i reached home, he really very happy.... :)

Ok, long enough ;p