Birthday means Mother’s Suffering Day

I start my JQ’s story from this...

One beautiful day in June 2008, was my due date, means a date when I supposed to deliver my baby. But I have no signal at all. I had started to on leave 1 week ago, coz Kelvin and my mum worry that I will deliver baby any time, so not allow me to work.

Doctor asked to go to clinic for checking on my due date. As I was not allowed to drive, so after I taken my breakfast, I waited my mum to come to fetch me to the clinic. My mum was not free in the morning, so she fetched me about 12pm, and we decided after checking then only we went for our lunch.

After checking, Doctor said my placenta already mature, should deliver baby as soon as possible, else afraid my baby will ‘shit’ in my body, then will be dangerous. And then, he checked my vaginal, wah, already opened 4 inches, but I didn’t feel anything at all! So, doctor suggested to ‘cui shang’ (in Cantonese, or to inject some medicine, so that I will deliver baby immediately) immediately or can wait till the next day.

So, I called Kelvin. He said : what to wait, deliver now la. So, he immediately informed his superior and came to accompany me. Before he arrived, the nurse helped me to put some medicine on my buttock, so that I can shit. Haha, else, I may shit when I ‘push to hard’ during my delivery of baby ;p then, I wore the cloth to get ready, and Kelvin also arrived.

The nurse helped me to inject the Cui Shang medicine. Then I asked the nurse, normally have to wait for how long, then only I can deliver my baby. The nurse said depends on people, but she think I can be very fast. I still hadn’t had my lunch yet, and started to feel hungry, but the nurse said cannot eat, coz afraid I will vomit if too pain, so she just made me a small cup of Milo.

FYI, Cui Shang will be more pain than normal labor pain, coz the pain will be very strong. And, my friend also injected Cui Shang medicine before, and she still cannot deliver baby for about 10hours+, end up still need to do surgery. Means she pain for more than 10hours, but still need to surgery, ‘wasted’ the pain….

After about 30minutes, I started to feel the pain. Gosh, really not play-play. Very pain. But I still can stand on it. The nurse came to check my vaginal from time to time to see how much it’s opened. I forgot how much it should opened, but only till certain size, then only doctor will come.

The wave of pain will come, and you will feel super pain, then it will gone, and you will have to wait for the next wave….Really pain, till I have to close my eyes to ‘against’ or ‘concentrate’ to the pain, so that I will be more ‘comfortable’…..haha, cannot think of suitable word…

When doctor came, huh, really big pain. And, I actually wanted to bite Kelvin, he so lucky that he saw my ‘intention’ and quickly kept his hand away, but he still holding my hand as support.

I actually almost lost conscious due to the pain! After few tried, I still not managed to push out my baby, coz I had no more energy (remembered I said I hadn’t taken my lunch?). So, doctor told me that I must try very hard, if this last push cannot, then he may have to do surgery, coz afraid will danger my baby. When I heard that it will danger my baby, I immediately ‘awake’ and really used all my energy for my last push, and doctor used vacuum to help me to vacuum out my baby.

Finally, my baby ‘come out’ ;p he cried very loud when doctor beat his buttock. I had no more energy, but still I looked to the direction where they brought him to clean up. And, just like those drama, the nurse came and told me that he is a boy :)

Then, the most ‘geli’ part was came…the doctor needed to sew my private part. Huh….i tell you, I still feel ‘geli’ when I think of it. A lot of people said, after you delivered baby, you will have no feeling when doctor sew your private part. BUT, I really cannot stand it! I think I can stand for the labor pain, but not this! Coz for labor pain, we can know when the pain come, so you can ‘against’ it. But this, huh, really depends on the doctor, you cannot predict! So, I really yell on this!

I really agreed that Birthday means to Mother’s Suffering Day! I already consider very lucky that I did not pain for a very long hours.

Then, they brought me to the room to rest, while they clean and check my baby. And, when I reached the room, I really very sleepy. Then I slept. After a while, I woke up, and they pushed my baby to my room. Really feel like wanted to cry, and I thinking, why he looks like Kelvin only?? Then I told Kelvin, if I told you this is not your son, you also won’t believe.

I felt so hang-fuk (Happy) when I carried my new born baby :) Actually now I still feel very hang-fuk when I carry JQ :)

Ok, end of the story…. :)