Monday, January 17, 2011

shi shi/ng ng yao bao chu lai liao

JQ very cute...i always emphasis on this hehe... ;p

Everytime he wants to ng ng or shi shi, he will say : shi shi/ng ng yao bao chu lai liao (shi shi/ng ng is coming out)...then i will bring him to toilet. You see? super cute!!!

where he learned from? his mother....akakkakkakka....

last time when i trained him to tell me when he wanted to go shi shi/ng ng, then i told him that must tell me before he wanted to shi shi or ng ng, else shi shi/ng ng bao chu lai(come out) then will dirty the floor or cloth. So, he learned from here...

Oh, also, when i bring him to shi shi (but he actually said he doesn't want to shi shi), then i will say : You see, shi shi bao chu lai liao, still say no shi shi....

so, children will learn from you....careful when you speak ;p

when someone bully JQ....

i think all of us will agree that JQ size is bigger than others that same age to him...shh....tell you, JQ wearing underwear since 2.5 years old!! the underwear, written for 4-6 years old...huh...

ok, back to topic ;p although his size is big, but he seldom bully others, actually he being bully by others...he is a peaceful boy ;p

For example, last few days, i brought him to play in the playground in Jusco Kepong. Then in the ball pool, there was a little boy, i think almost 2 years old, but size much smaller than JQ. He pulled JQ leg, and JQ just showed his sad face and wanted to cry. And JQ looked at me to seek for my help. So, i asked him to say STOP to the boy. Then the boy's grandma, carried the boy away.

Then, the boy pulled JQ leg again, this time like stronger, then JQ cried. I asked him to say STOP to the boy, then he got say, but softly and kept on crying. Then, the grandma brought away the boy and say sorry to me. I am ok with that, coz kids mah, but i wanted to take this chance to educate my JQ.

I educated JQ, people beat you, you cannot fight back, coz fighting is not correct, however, you must voice out to ask others stop bullying you!

We cannot be fierce, but also cannot be weak. We must stand for our own rights...this is what i wanted to teach JQ. Hope he will learn, i know he will :)

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Baking Time

I like to bake. When i bake, JQ like to come to kitchen to ka-ka-cau-cau ;p

One day, i making choc cupcake. So, he came again. So, i asked him to sit down, and help me to stir the choc powder (actually no need, but to make sure he sit properly only ;p). He really sit there, and help me to stir. And, he will ask me if stir enough or not. Of course, i said not enough, then he will say : Oh! then he continue to stir....i see his expression so serious, made me felt like want to laugh, but cannot, else he knows i played him ;p

Then after i put in choc powder, i asked him to stir flour. He stir half way, then he suddenly put in a scoop of flour into my batter (i think coz he saw me put in egg, so he think can put in the flour also). I immediately : WEI!!!

Then, he knows he did wrongly. He kept quiet, coz i silence there to take out the flour from the batter. Then he called softly : Mummy, mummy...he always like that, when he knows he did something wrong, to test if i still angry..he will also try to cheer me up, and try to do something else, so that i will loss focus on the mistake...so 'smart' ya, hehe...same as his mum, i also will like that 1... ;p

Later, i said can put the flour d, he so happy, and he helped me to pour in :)

Oh, in between, when his dad come in to the kitchen, he told hs dad : JQ bang mummy oh! JQ zuo dan gao (JQ help mummy, JQ making cake).... :)

so cute!!

Singapore Trip

Yes, JQ went to Singapore again....almost 2 weeks

End Dec 2010, my in-law suddenly decided to bring JQ to go Johor (i rushed back from office to pass JQ passport to her, as they will go singapore too).

When i back, JQ thought that i will follow him to go Lui-Sing (travel). He said : Mammy, wo men yi qi qu lui xing (we go travel together). Then i told him i am not going. Then he lao-gai. So, i talked to him la, asked him to listen to his grandma and yee-po. After that he is ok.

In between, we dare not called him, coz afraid he lao-gai...missed him so much...

Then 2 days before we went to Singapore to bring him back, JQ lao-gai, said wanted to call us. So, end up we video call using MSN.

When we talked, he actually still ok. Then after a while, see him felt sad d. Almost the end, he start to rub his eyes....pity boy, must be missing us so much! I saw him almost wanted to cry, so i told him that we will go Spore soon to look for him, ask him to be good boy.

Once we put down the phone......wah, he cried so loud! Coincidence we called them, so we know he cried, so i talked to him again, but he still cried very loud. My heart so pain, and wanted to cry, but no la....After he hanged phone, he still crying, but then stop, not too long.

Then, when we reached Singapore airport, JQ surprised us! Coz he actually waited us in airport. We suppose to meet them the next day. My in-law asked him to hide at the corner. Then when he saw me, his face so surprise, and can feel that he very happy! Then he said : JQ bing zhu (JQ hide). Then of course, he asked me to carry him, and of course i 101% willing to carry my dear boy :)

He didn't even want his dad to carry him. But after that have la,but a while, then asked me to carry him again.

Then we took bus. Wau, the whole bus was his sound! He kept talking to me nonstop, like we didn't meet for 10years ;p and he talked so loud. What he talked i cannot remember, i just remembered he very cute and he very excited :)

Then like usual la, he will stick with me if few days did not see me. But this time not that sticky la. Anyway, still if i not around, he will scream for me....

I asked him still wanted to go Lui-Xing or not, he will say : Mummy yi qi qu (mummy go together). Then i said no, mummy need to work. Then he will say No...hahahaha...little boy :)

oh, he really grow up ler! He now no more saying Mai Mai (no). He now will shake his head, and then said bu yao, bu yao! (also means no, but in mandarin) He is so cute when he saying so!

ok, end... :)

Monday, December 13, 2010

3rd time in Gleneagle....

Ya, JQ admitted Gleneagle again...this time coz high fever, and diarrhea.

Sunday 1.30am, i found that JQ having fever (i got a habit if i go toilet in the midnight, i will go check JQ...luckily), quite high 38.8C, so i quickly given a medicine to him (insert to ass hole). His fever dropped to below 38C after about 1hour+ and we kept on mopping his body to lower down the temperature.

I would have to say that we already 'biasa' with JQ frightening temperature, i mean above 39, so when we found that his temperature is 38 or below, we will 'not that worry', even that is a high temperature for a kid....

When about 7am, JQ fever still around 38, so we quickly brought him to those 24hours clinic. Doctor insert another type of medincine to JQ's buttock around 8.45am. However, the temperature still not dropping, even we kept mopping his body. Ok, not just not dropping, but increasing...39+

So, about 11am+, we brought him to the clinic again, as the doctor said if JQ temperature not dropping or having rashes, then we should bring JQ to see him again. We actually already get ready to go A&E in Gleneagle, so we need to ask the medicine that given by doctor as well. So, when Kelvin met the nurse and doctor, he told him that we already mop JQ since came back from clinic, and the temperature still not drop. So, the doctor asked us to admit hospital.

So, we quickly rush to Gleneagle. You maybe surprise that why i did not bring JQ to Gleneagle directly, but to the 24hours clinic in the morning. Coz from the 'previous experience' (this is not a good experience), i found that the medicine of Gleneagle is actually similar to others clinic, so no need to go Gleneagle unless critical. Besides, usually the A&E will not let JQ admit hospital, and will tell me that they can't do much even let him admitted hospital, so we can take care JQ at home.

When we reach Gleneagle, JQ's temperature is 39. But a lot of patient there, so when reach JQ turn, JQ temperature actually already drop below 38. So, i think that should be still same as previous experience (coz same A&E doctor that checking JQ too)...going home later. I told doctor of all JQ symptom to the doctor, and he told me that JQ needed to admit hospital after finished checking on JQ. In my heart, i saying: SHIT! (means this time serious...). Then he started to explain to me (i already started to feel something really bad, coz usually he seldom explain to me...) the reason of JQ will have high fever and diarrhea...

I tried to calm down myself, as i need to understand the situation. But when he told me that JQ having the influenza H1N1 symptom, i really felt that my tear coming out and telan to my tummy...anyway, he said that is just symptom, a lot of others sickness also having the symptom of high fever, diarrhea, flu and cough.

After checking the Rapid test of H1N1, it showed negative....huh, i know it sure not H1N1, but still feel very relieve. But doctor said need to retest with PCR to ensure not H1N1, terus my heart drop. But i know sure not H1N1 la. Don't ask me why, i just know, it sure not!!

Then JQ looks ok, my in-law and my mum came to visit JQ, he still quite active. However, JQ still diarhhea quite frequent (oh, he needs to do dripping, so that to prevent him from dehydration).

When about 9pm, i started to feel something wrong with JQ. He told me that he stomach pain, so i let him to ng-ng, then i noticed BLOOD!! My heart so nervous, but i still calm down myself, else i will frighthen JQ. Then after i cleaned him up, he vomit on to the floor. And, i can feel that his fever suddenly shut up.

I quickly go out and look for a nurse to check his temperature, 38.5. But cannot take medicine yet, coz just 9pm, only can take medicine at 10pm. And as he diarrhea, cannot put medicine to buttock again. When i telling the nurse that JQ's diarrhea with blood (not stain, but a lot blood for a 2years old boy...) and shivering said very cold, my tears really came out. I tell you, i think so far, JQ is the only male that make me cry for so many times...haahahhaha...try not to make this post too sad and nervous....

When about 9.45pm, nurse come to check him again....gosh, break record again! 40.5 degree celcius! And he was shivering. I kept on talk to him, ask him if he felt cold (he said yes) or if he feeling any stomachache (he said no). He still quite concious, as he given me the same answer everytime i ask him.

Suppose the nurse said given his medicine at 9.45pm (15min earlier), but end up ding-ding-dong-dong, still taken at 10pm. Luckily his temperature started to go down after 1 hour...and, then no more fever till now.

Anyway, his berak still with blood stain till now. I got told doctor, he said in this case, quite confirmed that it is bacteria infection, so need to let JQ take antibiotic (else he said wait for 3days if needed to give antibiotic or not).

Anyway, JQ looks ok now, at least no fever (highest 37.3 for today) and less diarrhea compare to yesterday, so, hope he can discharge tomorrow, but i think maybe Wed, coz need to let him take the strong antibiotic (inject to the blood stream instead of taken orally).

Ok, will tell some 'funny' story when we in Gleneagle in next post...now time to sleep (11.20pm), else no time to rest ...

Monday, November 22, 2010

Wo Hui Die Dao!

One morning, after JQ took bath, then i wanted to walk downstair together with JQ. So, i took his milk bottles and dirty cloth, so no more free hand to hold JQ's hand. So:

Mama : JQ, you walk down yourself ya. Careful!
JQ : Mummy, Qian Shou, Wo Hui Die Dao! (mummy, hold my hand, i will fall down)
Mama : .... (speechless..)

wahahahhahaha....

usually, when we walk up/downstair, i will hold JQ's hand, coz afraid he will fall down mah, but he sometimes don't want me to hold his hand, so i will say if not holding his hand, then he may fall down...

That day, i no hand to hold him, then he said Wo Hui Die Dao! Somemore he sai it so serious! Really made me laugh! Wahahhahaha....Kids really learn from adult....

End up, i still hold his hand la, made me so difficult to walk down with all the stuff and most important, my cute son .... :)

Thursday, November 4, 2010

JQ Hao Shuang!

Hao Shuang = so syiok

This morning,after i let JQ drank his milk, he turned his body, so his back facing me. Since is time to wake up (we need to go work), so i gu-ci him gently on his buttock and back side, to kacau him, so that he wake up...

Mana tau, he turned to me and said with his smiling face : JQ Hao Shuang!!

Waahhahahhaha....speechless.....

Then he still want me to gu-ci him....ahahhahahha....

if you gu-ci his tummy, then he will not say Hao Shuang, but Jiu Ming!!!

Oh, yesterday, when Kelvin drive us back, he gu-ci JQ in front of the traffic light. Then JQ said : Stop! JQ Yao Chang Ge
(he really said STOP!....with his hand showing the stop post JQ 1 2 sing song)

Wahahhahhaha....