i scolded JQ

JQ consider very good boy, not very naughty. My dad even said before: i prefer u let me jaga 10 JQ, also i don't want to jaga 1 XX (XX is my cousin son who born in cow year, who really 'cow', run/climb here n there, tak takut and non-stop ;p)

But, he still get 'chance' to be scolded by his lovely mummy ;p when?

Latest i scolded him because he simply played my iphone, and cause my game in the iphone hilang, and i need to play again! Of course i not scolding him not just because i lost the game, but also because he simply press button. I warned him before that he cannot simply press again, but he still did it, so i very angry (yes, this is the 2nd time he simply press then lost my game).

So, after i scolded him, i went to look for his dad, and stick to his dad. His dad talked to him, and told him what he done is wrong, and asked him to say sorry to me. But he saw my face very black and angry, he 'tried' to come near me, but then he being frightened and runaway. i actually wanted to laugh, but i tahan. Coz i wanted to let him know i very angry because he repeated his mistake.

He went upstair, and after i finished iron our clothes, i also went up. I still don't want to layan him, and don't want to see him, coz he not yet say sorry to me, but i know he looking at me. Then, his dad asked him to say sorry to me, so he came to me in nervous and said sorry.

So, i asked him if he know why i so angry. Then he knocked his head. i told him that i said before, if he repeated this mistake, he cannot touch my iphone anymore. I asked him to remember, not to play my iphone again.

Yesterday, when i back home, after i played with him, then i took out my iphone (got message). He then wants to play my iphone. I forgot about the above, then let him take my iphone, but in less than 1minute, i said : mummy said you cannot play my iphone again right? Then i take back, and he did not cry or lao-gai, coz he knows what it meant....hehe...

I seldom scold JQ by increasing my voice. But once i did, means i very angry, and he will very takut. For me, scold loud loud is useless. Coz, this time i scolded with volume 1, then slowly i need to increase to volume 2, 3, till 10, also he won't takut anymore. So, usually, when i angry, i will tell him, mummy very angry. Then he knows...of course, this also have to be JQ is a good boy only work la :)

Then, when i will increase my voice? Usually when i repeated to JQ that he cannot do something but he still do it, then i will... ;p

JQ, good boy lor :) but i know you are a good boy :) muak muak!